Yeah, I can't really shift things from one meal to another because my schedule is so wonky. One day I'm working from 9am to 2:30pm, and the next I'm working from 7 pm to 11 pm. One day DD has musical theater from 6-8pm, so we need to eat earlier, then the next day DS has chess from 5-6pm, so we can't eat until he gets home. But then if I have to work in the evening, I start at 7, so I have to leave for work at 6:45, DS doesn't get home until 6:15 from chess. So we have 30 minutes to scarf something down, which is also not healthy. My work schedule makes it difficult to make healthy habits, but that's where I get most of my steps in because it's ALL walking.
So like this week, Monday I was up at 6, doing laundry, unloading the dishwasher, making lunches by 7, got the kids out the door for school and then I ride my bike and have to leave around 8:15. I work from 9-2:30, then go to DS's school to pick him up...he gets out at 3. Then it takes us about 30 minutes to bike home, then I go to the grocery store, get stuff for dinner. (I walk...the store is 2 blocks away) so by the time I get home, it's around 4:15 and I have to start dinner. DH gets home at 5:30, we eat, and we're usually done around 6:30 or so, and I have to leave for choir, which is from 7:30-10. I went to bed as soon as I got home, because I had to get up at 6 on Tuesday because I had to work again. But yesterday, I was off, so I caught up on all the housework. Laundry, cleaning bathrooms, scrubbing down the kitchen, picking up the livingroom, sweeping/vacuuming the downstairs, getting rid of recyclables, etc, and I had to pick DS up from school, which takes me more than an hour if I'm not coming from my work because his school is on the other side of town, same side as my work, so I have to bike 25 minutes to get there, and then wait for him to come out, and then 30-35 minutes back. And we had Autimaat training last night. (parenting a child with Autism) Then today and tomorrow, I don't work until evening...so DD and I have to eat early because she has musical theater at 6, I start work at 7. DH drops her off, then comes back for me so I don't have to bike alone in the dark for 5 miles. I'll get home around 11:30 and have to get up at 7 to get the kids' lunches made for school tomorrow and then DS has chess at 5 and I work at 7 again. It's just a completely full schedule, and we didn't even have DS's physical therapy this week!
There's very little wiggle room most days. And I'm not always home at lunch to make myself a bigger meal, but if I am, it probably means I'm working in the evening, so I want the bigger meal at dinner anyway because that's when I'm more active. Tuesday I worked during the day, and there are no activities on Tuesday night. I was so exhausted, I went to bed at 8 and my fitbit said I fell asleep right away.