Wow...
@Bocabear and
@LuvtheGoof ...this is pretty low, even for these boards. I'm pretty sure I understand why
@raven made that comment, but I won't speak for them. Just very sad that people have to be attacked on here for their opinion. I stated mine, you stated yours, we discuss some and move on with life.
And the whole "snowflake" thing is getting tired, I won't apologize for being a parent who wants what's best for their kids, regardless of the situation (not just this one) or how people like you might view it. Your opinions on parenting and where people choose to live are crossing the line into personal attacks that aren't necessary here.