I couldn't agree more with being invested and caring about Disney so much you need a place to vent the frustrations with like minded fans. That's all good. Complain away. Its good to call Disney out, with the hope someone, somewhere that works for them might just see and who knows what could happen to make a difference.You're right.
I think people sometimes miss the fact that those of us who complain are mainly doing so because we love WDW. We're so emotionally invested in it, that when we see a place that is so special and has meant so much to us (for many of us, over our entire lives) casting off the things that made it so special and meaningful, we go through all the predictable stages of mourning that loss.
We're feeling disbelief, anger, sadness, betrayal, and resignation, sometimes all at the same time, and naturally, we're going to post about it. It doesn't mean we can't still enjoy WDW, that we're blind to its good points, or that we're just a clutch of Debbie Downers who want to ruin everybody else's good time. It just means we're processing -- with the help of others on this forum who "get it" because they're going through the same emotions -- how Disney's changes over the past few years have made us feel. The fact that Disney still has some amazing things to offer isn't mentioned as much, not because it isn't true, but because on a WDW fan forum, we implicitly assume that everybody already knows that, since it's what brought us all here in the first place. At least, I know I do.
My issue is those that actively dump on others excitement. One can make their point of their disappointment without directly or indirectly going after someone.