I visit both Paris and DLP every year. I don't live very far from it. Both Paris and DLP are full of graffiti, of dangerous people, rude behaviour. But I won't let that destroy the magic for me.
I adore Paris - it's filled with many of the friendliest, most polite people anywhere (yes), and I marvel at some of the quality of Paris Disneyland. What that park does well, it does oh so very well...
But what I really dream about is Walt Disney World. And that Floridian '95 degrees with 98 percent humidity' double whammy. Animal Kingdom and those water parks. And my beloved EPCOT.
I suppose we all romanticise that which is far away.