donaldtoo
Well-Known Member
Pawpaw's looking good!! God bless him.
As you probably remember, my dad is just a year older, but he had some bad luck health wise this year and is now wheelchair-bound in assisted living. Big adjustment for a.man who was.completely independent in April. My life would actually be easier if he'd agreed to.move in with us.
Thank you, and he really does look good for his age.
And yes, I do remember you relating that to me. So very sorry to hear of his more recent health issues, but I hope he is as comfortable as he can be.
We’ve (my two younger bros and younger sis) discussed all of this with our folks, as they are both, definitely, still of sound mind, but time is passing, and there’s no escaping that.
We are beyond grateful and blessed to have had them in all our lives for as long as we have, as I know many others haven’t been as fortunate as us in that regard.
MIL living with us in her last days was the best possible thing for her, and us.
My folks are of a different mindset, actually, but, as long as they are of sound mind, that’s their choice.
I’m a pretty upbeat guy, but what’s coming is inevitable, and I know it’s gonna’ hurt way more than I can even imagine, right now.
However, there is something to be said for, at least, having some time to mentally prepare for it.
Also, ya’ never know, I’m no spring chicken, and may very well croak before both of them…ya’ never know…sorry, just couldn’t resist adding a little levity to it all…!!!

