JenniferS
When you're the leader, you don't have to follow.
We go at least twice/trip.We don't spend much time there. Some trips my wife and daughter would shop at World of Disney or whatever it's called while I took my son to Typhoon Lagoon. We've only spent a couple of hours in total at DQ in all of our trips going back to 2003.
It's lovely to take the boat over to the PO resorts, do a walk about, grab some lunch, and take the boat back.
If you're on DDP, the whole afternoon is free, and frees up a park day for later in the trip; as we only get 10 day passes for an 11 - 14 day trip.
Now of course, Uni is looking good for a couple of those extra days.