You got: The Cool Aunt
You’re the cool aunt of your friend group: You’ve been there and done that, and you do not give a darn. You’re a natural leader, but you do not care about group drama nearly as much as the mom does. And while the mom might be the planner, everyone comes to you for advice (and to complain about Mom). Other cool aunts: Sophia Burset, Dumbledore, Samantha Jones.
Edited for language. Sounds about right though. I tend to be the leader, but I don't care about the drama. I also give advice, even to friends who are older than me. And I tend to tell my friends when they're being petty or stupid. Like last week when I told Bestie that she needs to eat because she was getting cranky and she gets cranky when she doesn't eat. Funniest part was her mom agreeing with me, and we'd never discussed it before.