Well, the problem is that you're assuming that "we only do this" is because of something that Disney has done to limit us. Nothing could be farther from the truth. I can see it for some people, but not for us.
So a typical day at Disney. Up very early. Maybe breakfast. Hit the parks before rope drop and spend a few hours there. Lunch either at the park or at a resort. Back to the resort for hours of relaxing pool time and possibly nap time (don't judge - I'm older
). Dinner somewhere, usually at one of the resorts, but sometimes at a park. Since we go during Flower&Garden and Food&Wine, we nosh around World Showcase for dinner quite a bit as well. If we feel like it, we might hit a different park at night for a few hours. Afterwards, a visit to the resort lounge to sit with the barkeeps. We also visit DS quite a bit, though we don't buy very much merch. We go for the food, beverage, and people watching while enjoying an adult beverage and Wetzel's Pretzel.
I understand that you are completely disillusioned as far as WDW is concerned, and I get it, but it isn't how everyone feels.