biggiedisney123
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heres an idea
for thiger: Pack your own health food.
for thiger: Pack your own health food.
Once again, though, this is quite a broad generalization. Do you know for a fact that most people more than 20 pounds overweight have psychological issues? And are you stating that stress is NOT considered a psychological issue? I reiterate what I stated earlier: NONE OF US knows why a fat person is fat. There are numerous medical issues that cause weight gain and heavily complicate weight loss. And, yes, even severe psychological issues are considered MEDICAL issues that compound weight gain/loss. Only fat people truly know how they got fat and why they are fat.
And yes, I'm speaking from experience. I'm fat. Actually, I'm considered MORBIDLY OBESE, which I think is a hoot and completely incorrect. And I have numerous medical issues that contributed to my weight gain and complicate my weight loss.
Okay, I'm not here to pick arguments or start a debate, so you can quit being defensive. I really hate when people use "stress" an excuse for things (and I'm not implying that you use stress as a cop-out or anyone on this board). EVERYONE HAS STRESS; it's a part of life. It's how you HANDLE your stress. 9 out of 10 times it's always the emotional/psychological issue that CAUSES the stress. Stress isn't the main problem; it's the person that chooses to ignore their on-going issues in the first place. People choose to medicate themselves in many ways (food, drugs, alcohol, gambling, etc.), to avoid their real issues. Permanent weight loss usually only comes AFTER much psychological growth and is usually one of the LAST psychological issues to be resolved.
You asked for proof, here it is and then some:
http://www.weight-dieting.org/dieting.htm
http://www.obesityresearch.org/cgi/content/full/12/10/1537
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/weight-loss/WT00029
http://www.bennadel.com/blog/524-Project-HUGE-The-Psychological-Problem-With-Losing-Weight.htm
I could list more, but you get the point. I hope you don't mind if I ask a personal question and you don't have to answer if you don't want to; did ALL of your medical conditions appear when you where health/toned or did the medical problems appeared when you gained weight? Because 9 out of 10 times; most medical conditions come along after many months/years of being over weight/obese.
Honestly was not trying to pick an argument, but I am one for friendly debate! I do want to point out that there are numerous psychological issues that determine how people deal with stress - yes, everyone has stress. But not everyone is physically/mentally equipped to deal with it. I tend to agree that there are probably underlying psychological issues that can affect/contribute to weight gain/loss - but not everyone is aware of their issues, nor can everyone receive appropriate care for their issues. Some people need to be told of their 'real' issues, and some people are not ever able to overcome those 'real' issues, especially if they are of the psychological sort. I can see where you're coming from, and I'm not straight out disagreeing with what you said in your last post, but I feel that is still a rather broad generalization of weight issues. While it is true that about 50% of children are overweight or obese, it is also true that depression and mental illness in children has risen dramatically over the past twenty years. There is most definitely a link there.
As to my personal issues, I am what I like to consider an open book, and I have no problem sharing. I was a little chunky (less than 10 pounds over my recommended weight) between the ages of 8-11. My parents divorced when I was 6, and my mother met my stepfather when I was 9. So, that explains that. I have been nearsighted since the age of 6, a very minor heart murmur (no restrictions) at the age of 11, diagnosed with clinical depression at teh age of 12, and was diagnosed with asthma at the age of 16. During high school, I was either at an appropriate weight or slighly underweight according to my doctors.
About a year after high school, I was hospitalized and was about 15 pounds overweight. Doctors figured it was the birth control I was on, and stopped it. I have consistently gained weight since then, over the past nine years. In the past nine years, I have fought a losing battle with different mental and physical illnesses, all the time continuing to gain weight. I have finally been diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome, and after looking over my medical charts for the last fifteen years, my doctor states I started showing severe symptoms of PCOS from the age of 16 and is astonished that I was not diagnosed before. Since leveling out my hormone levels, I have been able to lose 45 pounds (so far). I have tried every diet during my adult life, including two attempts at Weight Watchers, both of which ended with a weight gain of 22-28 pounds. When my cholesterol shot up to 232, they put me on a heart healthy diet for six months, and my cholesterol went up to 257.
I can honestly tell you that 100% of my weight gain is due to mental and physical illnesses. And, when I'm in a wheelchair at Disney because of severe arthritis in my foot - to where I can't walk some days - people look at me and think 'Look at that fatty, too fat and lazy to walk around the park'. And it stinks because they, like most of the general population, think you get fat only by stuffing your face.
I think its funny that people can single out the obese because they can see the problem, I wonder how many thin people throwing stones have addictions of their own? Maybe we should ban the pirate feathers for ______ addicts? Maybe ban belts for those that believe in corporal punishment? Maybe ban tshirts for the shopaholics? Shoot, we could ban baggy clothing for the anorexic. Just because you can't physcially see some addictions does not make them less dangerous to society.
ps...if Ya don't want to debate, then don't post.
Well back to should disney be setting a better example? I think they offer a good selection now.
I will admit though, that if I get caught behind on my errands, I will hit the drive-thru.
I don't want to get into a debate about weight and I know some people have health issues associated or not associated with that weight (Ex someone said severe arthrisitis)
Last time we were at Disney we were amazed at how many people were on those scooters and yes most seemed heavy. (when you saw a handicapped child they seemed to be in a wheelchair most of the time.)
I am fine with people using those scooters.
What bothered us the last time was the people in the scooters getting to cut the line! No one wants to wait in line. We had a 3 and 4 year old with us. Children of that age don't understand why they have to wait in line and sometimes it can be VERY difficult. Meanwhile person after person on those scooters was being taken to the front of the line. How is that fair to the rest of us!
That said when we saw people/children with real handicaps we were fine with them getting to the front of the line.
I don't want to get into a debate about weight and I know some people have health issues associated or not associated with that weight (Ex someone said severe arthrisitis)
Last time we were at Disney we were amazed at how many people were on those scooters and yes most seemed heavy. (when you saw a handicapped child they seemed to be in a wheelchair most of the time.)
I am fine with people using those scooters.
What bothered us the last time was the people in the scooters getting to cut the line! No one wants to wait in line. We had a 3 and 4 year old with us. Children of that age don't understand why they have to wait in line and sometimes it can be VERY difficult. Meanwhile person after person on those scooters was being taken to the front of the line. How is that fair to the rest of us!
That said when we saw people/children with real handicaps we were fine with them getting to the front of the line.
I don't want to get into a debate about weight and I know some people have health issues associated or not associated with that weight (Ex someone said severe arthrisitis)
Last time we were at Disney we were amazed at how many people were on those scooters and yes most seemed heavy. (when you saw a handicapped child they seemed to be in a wheelchair most of the time.)
I am fine with people using those scooters.
What bothered us the last time was the people in the scooters getting to cut the line! No one wants to wait in line. We had a 3 and 4 year old with us. Children of that age don't understand why they have to wait in line and sometimes it can be VERY difficult. Meanwhile person after person on those scooters was being taken to the front of the line. How is that fair to the rest of us!
That said when we saw people/children with real handicaps we were fine with them getting to the front of the line.
I don't want to get into a debate about weight and I know some people have health issues associated or not associated with that weight (Ex someone said severe arthrisitis)
Last time we were at Disney we were amazed at how many people were on those scooters and yes most seemed heavy. (when you saw a handicapped child they seemed to be in a wheelchair most of the time.)
I am fine with people using those scooters.
What bothered us the last time was the people in the scooters getting to cut the line! No one wants to wait in line. We had a 3 and 4 year old with us. Children of that age don't understand why they have to wait in line and sometimes it can be VERY difficult. Meanwhile person after person on those scooters was being taken to the front of the line. How is that fair to the rest of us!
That said when we saw people/children with real handicaps we were fine with them getting to the front of the line.
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