"The thing people always seem to forget is that it may not be offensive to you, but it might be to someone else, and although you may disagree you must respect how it makes them feel."
Are you speaking for 'people'? What if it doesn't make all people feel bad? I LOVE this film. Am I a racist? I don't see you saying it also makes people feel happy and nostalgic? This film makes me cry I have so much love for it. The thing people like you always seem to forget is that it may be offensive to you, but it might not be to someone else, and although you may disagree you must respect how it makes them feel. So call Pan a 'dirk', but just remember and realise, you might not like it, but others certainly do, and you should respect that. Don't tear down their favourite film with harsh words. Simply say you don't like it. End of.