Tipping is this fair ?

Hakunamatata

Le Meh
Premium Member
Thanks your so helpful !
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BrianV

Well-Known Member
That sounds like a good idea but should it not read... acknowledged by obligatory gratuities ? As is not acceptable to not leave a tip . It would ensure foreign tourists pay the tip/wage .

I disagree. It is legal to leave no tip. They will not call the police in the same way as if you skip paying your bill. They are not obligatory in that sense.

However, I agree it is not acceptable to leave no tip except in the case of truly awful service. And then you should still leave a tiny amount (some say one penny) so that they know you didn't forget, you chose to leave no tip. I think maybe once in my life I have experienced service deserving of no tip...
 

Weather_Lady

Well-Known Member
I'm from the UK, and I always tip the customary 18-20% when we visit the USA. However I had no idea until I read this that you were supposed to tip bar staff??? Granted, i'm only in my early 20's and have never been to a bar at WDW (only ordered drinks with meals). In the UK we don't generally tip bar staff (except maybe leave loose change if theres a change jar). What is the recommended tip when you buy drinks? Is it the same 18-20%??

I've never heard it given as a percentage -- around my neck of the woods we tip the bartender a dollar per drink, or two dollars if it's a complicated mixed drink or if the bartender has given us an especially generously-sized pour.
 

Kit83

Active Member
Original Poster
I disagree. It is legal to leave no tip. They will not call the police in the same way as if you skip paying your bill. They are not obligatory in that sense.

However, I agree it is not acceptable to leave no tip except in the case of truly awful service. And then you should still leave a tiny amount (some say one penny) so that they know you didn't forget, you chose to leave no tip. I think maybe once in my life I have experienced service deserving of no tip...

I think from a foreigners point of view it's vague and the reason they are accused of not leaving enough or any tip ! There is also a point that Disney restaurants are not your local restaurant, where you may visit many times and so a tip is important to the customer server relationship whereas at Disney you may never dine there again, with a non obligatory tip some would be encouraged to leave without paying a tip .

I realize this is all hypothetical but I think it would ensure Disney restaurant staff always get paid .
 

Hakunamatata

Le Meh
Premium Member
I think from a foreigners point of view it's vague and the reason they are accused of not leaving enough or any tip ! There is also a point that Disney restaurants are not your local restaurant, where you may visit many times and so a tip is important to the customer server relationship whereas at Disney you may never dine there again, with a non obligatory tip some would be encouraged to leave without paying a tip .

I realize this is all hypothetical but I think it would ensure Disney restaurant staff always get paid .
If I was traveling to a foreign country I would familiarize myself with the customs and expectations of where I was going. I wouldn't expect my destination to change according to what I feel should be reasonable.
 

BrianV

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Kit83

Active Member
Original Poster
If I was traveling to a foreign country I would familiarize myself with the customs and expectations of where I was going. I wouldn't expect my destination to change according to what I feel should be reasonable.

I do agree with you but sadly many would not be so diligent. With the vague nature of a tip that is both non obligatory and yet obligatory, throw in dozens of non English speaking countries its no wonder servers don't always get their tip/wage .
 

The Empress Lilly

Well-Known Member
That is just sad to me, and I could never leave only a $25 tip for a $350 meal.
That is why waiters here fight over American customers, preferably fresh of the airplane and still unaware of local customs! =D

It's all a matter of cultural context. In America, it is not done not to abide by the X% rule. In (most of) Europe, tipping is a small token of appreciation:

Restaurant tips are more modest in Europe than in America. In most places, 10% is a big tip. If your bucks talk at home, muzzle them on your travels. As a matter of principle, if not economy, the local price should prevail. Please believe me — tipping 15% or 20% in Europe is unnecessary, if not culturally ignorant.

Virtually anywhere in Europe, you can do as the Europeans do and (if you're pleased with the service) add a euro or two ($2.5) for each person in your party.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/travel/destinations/2014/08/23/what-to-tip-in-europe/14447597/
 

Much-Pixie-Dust

Well-Known Member
I only put the idea up as a Question by the way, it is I hope ok to pose questions ? I did put a question mark on the title ! :)
I realize you put a question mark on the end on the title. I read your detailed plan, as you used the word plan in the beginning of your post. I gave my opinion, as you asked for opinions regarding said plan. Asking questions is a great part of forums and you have been many people's opinions on this topic.
 

Lord_Vader

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I disagree. It is legal to leave no tip. They will not call the police in the same way as if you skip paying your bill. They are not obligatory in that sense.

However, I agree it is not acceptable to leave no tip except in the case of truly awful service. And then you should still leave a tiny amount (some say one penny) so that they know you didn't forget, you chose to leave no tip. I think maybe once in my life I have experienced service deserving of no tip...

Tipping is a moral obligation here, not legal that is true but leaving a penny, nickel, dime, quarter, etc. is not a reminder that you forgot but a pointed insult at the server.
 

mom2of2

Active Member
If you ever have unsatifactory service at WDW, speak up right away! Ask to speak to a manager and give everyone the chance to make it right. A penny does not tell a server they did a bad job...it says that you are a dirt bag period. There is never a reason why a server should PAY to serve YOU and that's excatly what happens when you chose to leave no tip or not tip at least the minimum amount based on the sale. Servers pay the sales tax and tip out 3% of the sale.

Personally I wish that grat was included in every check and that way no one forgets to leave one and no one can complain about the amount left
 

Much-Pixie-Dust

Well-Known Member
That is why waiters here fight over American customers, preferably fresh of the airplane and still unaware of local customs! =D

It's all a matter of cultural context. In America, it is not done not to abide by the X% rule. In (most of) Europe, tipping is a small token of appreciation:

Restaurant tips are more modest in Europe than in America. In most places, 10% is a big tip. If your bucks talk at home, muzzle them on your travels. As a matter of principle, if not economy, the local price should prevail. Please believe me — tipping 15% or 20% in Europe is unnecessary, if not culturally ignorant.

Virtually anywhere in Europe, you can do as the Europeans do and (if you're pleased with the service) add a euro or two ($2.5) for each person in your party.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/travel/destinations/2014/08/23/what-to-tip-in-europe/14447597/
I realize the cultural differences. I feel it is important to be respectful of a society's customs when visiting too.
 

BrianV

Well-Known Member
Tipping is a moral obligation here, not legal that is true but leaving a penny, nickel, dime, quarter, etc. is not a reminder that you forgot but a pointed insult at the server.

Not true. The purpose of leaving a trivially small amount is to show that you didn't forget and that they were terrible. If they are terrible, you should not tip. But again, truly terrible service is very very very rare.
 

mom2of2

Active Member
Not in Europe it isn't.
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But this isn't Europe, it's the USA and a server at WDW that wasn't up to par wouldn't be a WDW server for long.

Not true. The purpose of leaving a trivially small amount is to show that you didn't forget and that they were terrible. If they are terrible, you should not tip. But again, truly terrible service is very very very rare.
That might be your idea of one, to a server it's being a disrespectful donkey and has nothing to do with their level of service
 

BrianV

Well-Known Member
But this isn't Europe, it's the USA and a server at WDW that wasn't up to par wouldn't be a WDW server for long.


That might be your idea of one, to a server it's being a disrespectful donkey and has nothing to do with their level of service

Well, do a google search. Pretty common practice to leave really small tip instead of zero tip.
http://moneyning.com/money-beliefs/tipping-guide-for-good-and-bad-service-from-an-ex-waitress/

Besides, if they are terrible and a disrespectful donkey, do they deserve more?

Again, we are talking about terrible terrible service...1 in 10,000.
 

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