I hate to sound "old fart", but I think frankly I was lucky to grow up then. We still learned the electronics and computers weren't all consumer facing (not at ALL) back then...so you actually had to learn to do more than click and tap.
To install that card (I think I was 11 or 12) I had to read a whole book (no internet for me to go to for a quick fix, no youtube video walkthroughs, nothing)...and mess with the sucker, and it took me days.
However, when I finally got it to work and booted up Falcon 4.0, and flew (and died) on my first mission, I was so happy, and very proud of myself...and I'd learned stuff about how a computer WORKS.
Hard to explain...
We fiddled around with things like...for example, my buddy and I made our own video game in BASIC, and he and I wired up our bikes with LEDs using (gasp) soldering guns.
Etc...
We were growing up in the dawn of the electronics era, where it was consumer enough to be big business, but still not consumer enough to be disposable.