Let's note difference.
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Simple. Modest. Well proportioned. They do not cause unnecessary attraction to themselves. They are behaving in a way that is respectable and respectful. They dress the way they do because they are adults with jobs that require them to own a suit.
Now let's look at Dapper Day guests.
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Exaggerated. Caricatures. Unshaven. Obese. Everything about their behavior summons attention towards them. They are not content with living life, they must be the focal point. They dress like this because they are children wishing to live in a land of make believe, not because they are adults with a sense of style. They imitate without understanding the tradition they make a mockery of.
When I say "We have to go back," I do not mean to parody those who came before, I mean to honor their image and their ideals, to strive for something greater than ourselves in our actions. I wear a tucked in, button down shirt because I'm an adult man and that's what adult men wear (though it would be just as appropriate to wear a button up, or even a polo, should the weather permit). I do not wear a three piece suit with a top hat, pocket watch, and cane to match, because that is not what adults wear, nor do I wear graphic tees with pop culture references. To dress in either fashion other than I do would be to put the focus on me, which is the problem of the lady that sparked this conversation; she cares only for her needs and wants, not those of others.