The Chit Chat Chit Chat Thread

Songbird76

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I've had bifocals for years. I don't think about that anymore. I couldn't use the progressive lenses, as I only use one eye at a time.
Do you have cross-eyes? My ex did and you couldn't ever tell when he was looking at you. He'd be talking to you and it would look like he was looking somewhere else. And he could only use one eye at a time because of it, and he had NO depth perception which is why he was a HORRIBLE driver.
 

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
Well, the thing is my brother is HORRIBLE with money and he has a huge sense of entitlement when it comes to material things he wants. He got into trouble, maxing out multiple credit cards and he couldn't pay his bills. My dad bailed him out or he'd have gone bankrupt at 20. He had to consolidate all the credit cards and negotiate on it and he wasn't allowed to have a credit card for like a decade after he had paid what they had agreed on. But he still tended to spend money before he had earned it. When my mom passed, he tried really hard to manipulate it so he got anything of value and when I didn't let him divide it unevenly, he got angry because he "already had plans for that money" and I said, that may be but it's not your money and I have plans for it too, as it's MINE. I think he was in trouble again and knew dad wasn't going to bail him out a second time, and he had no credit cards anymore, so he pawned everything from his half of mom's estate to make up for my share that he couldn't manipulate me out of and of course he couldn't tell me he was in financial trouble again so he couldn't sell it to me, either. Not that I could have afforded it anyway. I love my brother, but I don't trust him at all when it comes to money.

That is a scarey way to live life. During the last recession we had to be beyond careful, it was difficult and we had 2 kids in college.

My folks were well and my Sis was just kinda babbling when she was in town. She made a comment at that time that she really wouldn't want much from my folks home when the time came and then she just rattled off the things she would be taking and that would be all she'd want and we could have everything else. (not quite that obnoxiously stated though)

Well everything she laid claimed to were the high end furniture, Hummels, lladro's, best of the jewelry and my Gran's Crystal living room lamps and the Tiffany Lamp. Probably a few other things. The rest of the home has good furnishings but nothing anyone would really want just household goods. I could see her pulling up a moving van taking the best of the best and leaving me with a bunch of ***** My Sis was much younger then and likely would not want most of what she laid claim to back then but in my head I was thinking that is what you think woman. I refused to even discuss it I just listened. Sis was already irritated that I am the executor of their Estate (she is an attorney), power of attorney and I am on all the accounts and safety deposit box of my folks. Mom knew I'd be fair when the day does come. I'm still at the helm. My Sis owns the lawfirm that she was a partner in now, likely other than Jewelry she isn't going to want or need anything.
 

Songbird76

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I saw it on the news last evening and the menu looks amazing. Apparently the Cubs manager is a great Italian Chef besides being a pretty good baseball manager along with a nice man that enjoys life. He was on the news last night for shopping at a Chain Grocery in Chicago's North West Suburbs. He along with some of the coaches and players will be serving an amazing dinner that the Manager and his team will be preparing for 200 some guests that are homeless. It is part of Cub's Care. During the coverage of the ThanksMas meal prep they mentioned his restaurant he opened just months before he accepted the job as Manager of the Cubs. And the sports people started talking about how amazing and reasonable Ava's was in Tampa. :hungry: Yep we should all take a road trip. :hungry:
Count me in too! It says Italian, and I LOVE Italian food.
 

Songbird76

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How 'bout it. Walt slipped and fell outside around midnight. He wouldn't come in. Then there is me, jammies, robe and rainboots trying to catch him to try and get him up the back stairs but he was scared. He kept running to the back of the property to avoid me. He'd come close when I'd go back in and he wanted in but not via stairs, like as if there was another way. Oy. Went on for about 45 minutes. I was awake again and a popsicle. Walt went out with me to shovel this morning but he wouldn't do the stairs again. My DD arrived as I was shoveling and opened the back door and said Hi to Walt. He was so excited to see her her ran up the stairs forgetting he was scared. Amen.

I shoveled for 2 hours in the wind but sun and was once again a human popsicle. Have yet to really warm up.

FLORIDA FLORIDA FLORIDA
Aw, poor baby! My childhood dog was tiny....part chihuahua and part cocker spaniel...so he was just small and the first winter, he had of course never experienced snow. There was snow covering our front porch and he went to go outside and took a step down and slipped and went down the stairs on his belly with his front legs stretched out in front of him and he came up at the bottom with a big pile of snow on his nose and he just looked so surprised and wouldn't go any further...just turned around and came right back up the stairs and wanted in. He was wanting NOTHING to do with that snow!
 

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
Aw, poor baby! My childhood dog was tiny....part chihuahua and part cocker spaniel...so he was just small and the first winter, he had of course never experienced snow. There was snow covering our front porch and he went to go outside and took a step down and slipped and went down the stairs on his belly with his front legs stretched out in front of him and he came up at the bottom with a big pile of snow on his nose and he just looked so surprised and wouldn't go any further...just turned around and came right back up the stairs and wanted in. He was wanting NOTHING to do with that snow!

All of my Pups have loved the snow, Walt was playing so hard out in the snow this morning. His balance at his age is not great on tile and wood floors now and he slides. Walt now avoids any area in the house that I don't have throw rug paths for him. Yes I do that for Walt. I'm thinking the back porch is just another thing he has scratched off the list of places to step on, the list is growing but he has to do stairs.

Walt also missed jumping into the back of my truck. That was the end of leaping up there. I bought him a real good ramp that folds in half. I swear our home now is Walt Land.
 

Songbird76

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That is a scarey way to live life. During the last recession we had to be beyond careful, it was difficult and we had 2 kids in college.

My folks were well and my Sis was just kinda babbling when she was in town. She made a comment at that time that she really wouldn't want much from my folks home when the time came and then she just rattled off the things she would be taking and that would be all she'd want and we could have everything else. (not quite that obnoxiously stated though)

Well everything she laid claimed to were the high end furniture, Hummels, lladro's, best of the jewelry and my Gran's Crystal living room lamps and the Tiffany Lamp. Probably a few other things. The rest of the home has good furnishings but nothing anyone would really want just household goods. I could see her pulling up a moving van taking the best of the best and leaving me with a bunch of ***** My Sis was much younger then and likely would not want most of what she laid claim to back then but in my head I was thinking that is what you think woman. I refused to even discuss it I just listened. Sis was already irritated that I am the executor of their Estate (she is an attorney), power of attorney and I am on all the accounts and safety deposit box of my folks. Mom knew I'd be fair when the day does come. I'm still at the helm. My Sis owns the lawfirm that she was a partner in now, likely other than Jewelry she isn't going to want or need anything.
My mom made my brother and I both power of attorney, etc...and she had a codicil written into the will that said it had to be divided evenly and if either of us contested the will or tried to get more in court, that person forfeited his rights to everything and it all went to the other. Smart woman, my mother. My dad has me as executor because he knows that my brother can't be trusted with it and I can. I think part of my brother's problem is that we grew up poor. We lived below the poverty line...all my clothes were hand-me-downs from friends, and his we all from thrift shops because he was so big there was no one to hand clothes down to him. Mom had worked at a savings and loan before she married my dad and she was excellent with money...very frugal. So while we bought generic EVERYTHING in bulk, with coupons and on sale, we always had enough but never high end stuff. Mom had grown up during WWII and rationing, so she was used to saving things and reusing things....old coffee cans became ovens, tuna cans became candles, milk cartons held grease drippings, meat trays were saved for christmas cookie platters for friends, newspapers became shelf liners. So I think my brother figured that since we grew up with nothing, it was time he was entitled to the things he wanted and had never had. So as soon as he got a paycheck, he went and bought a stereo, or a this or a that. And he got used to doing that. So when he got to college and had an apartment, he didn't think about things like rent, or gas, or electricity. As soon as he got money, he went and bought the next toy. He nearly ruined his best friend/roommate's credit, not paying the bills that were in his name, and he's the one who finally went to my mom and told her she needed to do something because he couldn't bail him out anymore and he was suffering for it. That's when my dad bailed him out. I think he was just so tired of never having the things he thought everyone else had, because we grew up in a rich town where everyone else had money.

Your mom's still alive, isn't she? Do you think your sister will be more mature now? I was only 25 when my mom died, my brother was 26...so we were just young. But I don't think he'd be any better today at 40 than when he was 26. He still hasn't learned his lesson and I kind of doubt he ever will.
 

betty rose

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How 'bout it. Walt slipped and fell outside around midnight. He wouldn't come in. Then there is me, jammies, robe and rainboots trying to catch him to try and get him up the back stairs but he was scared. He kept running to the back of the property to avoid me. He'd come close when I'd go back in and he wanted in but not via stairs, like as if there was another way. Oy. Went on for about 45 minutes. I was awake again and a popsicle. Walt went out with me to shovel this morning but he wouldn't do the stairs again. My DD arrived as I was shoveling and opened the back door and said Hi to Walt. He was so excited to see her her ran up the stairs forgetting he was scared. Amen.

I shoveled for 2 hours in the wind but sun and was once again a human popsicle. Have yet to really warm up.

FLORIDA FLORIDA FLORIDA
Oh, I'm so sorry for you. I remember having to get up and shovel down sometimes a foot of snow to make a path for doggies, at 3 A.M. What we do for our beloved pets. Now that I don't have a doggie, I would gladly do that again. I'm not sure my back would like it though.;) I hope Walt is okay, when our dog got old she slipped on ice, (you can't shovel, that), and ruptured a disc, (just like mama). We had to carry her out and back in. Even with pain meds from the Doctor, didn't want another injury.
 

betty rose

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Public transportation, lol. What would be an hour drive with no traffic (and of course, the concept of "no traffic" is ludicrous at rush hour here, haha) gets extended with the transfers I have to take from train to subway, walking, etc. Which is just dandy on the best of days, let alone when there is 2+ feet of snow on the ground.

You'd think that New England would be used to winter weather... :rolleyes:
So sorry for that kind of a commute. That must be horrible in winter. As you may have noticed, many people on here Hate winter!
 

Songbird76

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I love ours, hubby does too! It's so nice to climb into bed with warm sheets! You don't spend half the night trying to get warm.
Well, it all started with me not getting to bed until 1 am the other night and keeping hubby up. I have a heating pad and my blow dryer...I use the blowdryer to keep my feet warm and then I blow hot air under the covers so they STAY warm, and I use the heating pad on my back. But the blow dryer is loud and if hubby is sleeping, it will startle him awake. So I had put it under the covers to turn it on to muffle the sound, but then it has a safety feature so it doesn't start a fire, and it turned off and I couldn't turn it back on again. So I was having to alternate between my feet and back with the heating pad, which then nothing STAYS warm. Finally at 1 I got to bed and I told hubby in the morning that I needed another heating pad so I had one for my feet and one for my back so I don't need to use the blow dryer. He said we should just look for a mattress sized one and be done with it. I mentioned the other day that they have dual ones so each person controls their own side. He asked why I didn't just get one for my side....I said because then there's a lump in the middle of the bed, which actually, I don't think it would be in the middle, because the single ones are made for a single sized mattress, which is more than half the size of a double mattress, so that wouldn't work because it would still lie half on his side. So now we are going to look into them. I think we'll BOTH sleep better if I'm warm.
 

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
My mom made my brother and I both power of attorney, etc...and she had a codicil written into the will that said it had to be divided evenly and if either of us contested the will or tried to get more in court, that person forfeited his rights to everything and it all went to the other. Smart woman, my mother. My dad has me as executor because he knows that my brother can't be trusted with it and I can. I think part of my brother's problem is that we grew up poor. We lived below the poverty line...all my clothes were hand-me-downs from friends, and his we all from thrift shops because he was so big there was no one to hand clothes down to him. Mom had worked at a savings and loan before she married my dad and she was excellent with money...very frugal. So while we bought generic EVERYTHING in bulk, with coupons and on sale, we always had enough but never high end stuff. Mom had grown up during WWII and rationing, so she was used to saving things and reusing things....old coffee cans became ovens, tuna cans became candles, milk cartons held grease drippings, meat trays were saved for christmas cookie platters for friends, newspapers became shelf liners. So I think my brother figured that since we grew up with nothing, it was time he was entitled to the things he wanted and had never had. So as soon as he got a paycheck, he went and bought a stereo, or a this or a that. And he got used to doing that. So when he got to college and had an apartment, he didn't think about things like rent, or gas, or electricity. As soon as he got money, he went and bought the next toy. He nearly ruined his best friend/roommate's credit, not paying the bills that were in his name, and he's the one who finally went to my mom and told her she needed to do something because he couldn't bail him out anymore and he was suffering for it. That's when my dad bailed him out. I think he was just so tired of never having the things he thought everyone else had, because we grew up in a rich town where everyone else had money.

Your mom's still alive, isn't she? Do you think your sister will be more mature now? I was only 25 when my mom died, my brother was 26...so we were just young. But I don't think he'd be any better today at 40 than when he was 26. He still hasn't learned his lesson and I kind of doubt he ever will.

My Mom grew up at the end of the great recession too. She was one of 12 kids and they were very far below the poverty line. Grandparents encouraged kids to drop out of school, get a job and help support the family. My Grandfather would take a good chunk of their earnings on payday. Most of the boys worked in the Indiana Steel Mills, most never returned home after being in the service because of my Grandfather. The girls, most didn't go with their education because 'girls only get married and pregnant so they didn't need to be in school when they could be working. 4 of the 5 girls were out of school by 8th grade. My Mom was Child #7 and she was assigned 2 younger kids, had a job and went to school. She was the first to escape the job rule and finished high school and went with her education a few years later to become a teacher. The last boy #12 was the only other child to finish high school. It was uncommon in those days but geez it stuck with my Mom and she just had two kids and married a man that could provide. We were not spoiled but we did have nice clothing, shoes etc. Toys and stuff probably much less than the kids we grew up around but I didn't notice all that until high school. And yes, both of parents are still living.

My Sis has grown into being a very generous person. She and her husband are very wealthy people. Both very career driven type people that have garnered them incredible salaries. My folks Will like your Moms is very much divide between two kids. My Mom split jewlery years ago between me and my Sis and my DD and my niece. They wear theirs. Mine sits in a safety deposit box. Doubt Sis will be a pain when they pass. Different times now. Amen. What they need to do now in their 80's is to put it in a trust. A concept lost on them.
 

betty rose

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I hated game meat. The only kind I liked was when mom made Veal Parmesan. Anything else just was tough and tasted sagey. We had hunters on my dad's ranch every year and of course my dad hunted with them, and my mom did occasionally too. But I hated it and I hated the game meat. My mom would get mad at me because she'd try to hide it by mixing ground antelope in with the hamburger, but I could always taste it. She'd accuse me of going through the trash and finding the wrapping from the antelope....she apparently couldn't taste the difference. You'd have to have dead taste buds not to taste the difference!
Absolutely, Mom tried to pass off rabbit and squirrel as "fried chicken", one bite and I was done. No threats could make me eat that stuff!
 

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