The Chit Chat Chit Chat Thread

[Figgy1]

I rope dropped my weekly grocery run this morning and got in and out of 2 stores with everything I needed in no time flat. Had to hit Walmart for liquid bandage so I hit there first. Anyhoo it was too funny kerosene gas cans almost wiped out, windshield washer gone, dairy milk demolished, regular eggs not much left, bottled water going quickly, white bread, good luck finding it now but what struck me as different frozen waffles were going quickly, people at both stores had them in their carts along with the milk, eggs and bread.
BTW none of the above was on my list
I cornered the market on green peppers, broccoli and bok choi. I see stir fry and a sheet pan dinner or 2 in our future

 

[Goofyernmost]

Ill never understand why people have to say stupid sh*t like this when it comes to video games. The kid could be doing far worse like selling drugs or getting in trouble with the police.

The video aside, I'm confused as to why you feel that what I highlighted is stupid. Having been a parent/grandparent for 50 years now I have to agree with it. I also think that way to much time is spent on video games but it doesn't create an evil person. At most it creates a person sadly lacking in social skill and knowledge beyond the skill levels targeted in the games.

I have a grandson that at 17 years old decided that since he was so good a "killing" the enemy in the games that he wanted to join the military when he turned 18. It took some extensive talking and a grandfather that had been in a war to point out that it's much harder to be great at that when they are shooting back at you with real bullets. His social skill are still none existent at 24 years old and he is still living at home, but life is entering into his brain box about what life is about since he was required to get a job, finally, by his parents. By the time I was 24 I had been to war, been married for a year and was expecting our first child. To me it isn't evil but it does truly account toward arrested development.

He has a knowledge of computers and programing that will set him up financially for life but to me it seems that it isn't a very happy life and it is true that he is not selling drugs or getting arrested and that is only one part of life and there is so much more, some good and some bad but it is all part of what creates a personality that allows for growth and accomplishments in the real game called life. Real life is so much more than making money. Money helps us to stay alive, but it isn't needed to have an accomplished life.

 

[FutureCEO]

Too bad you'll miss out. Meanwhile, our forecast up here is right on track for snow!! (I'm in the 6-9 inches area.) @King Racoon 77 and @Figgy1, here is a video forecast from this morning, that you'll enjoy!)

How much rain fell in your area during the overnight storm?

More than 4 inches of rain fell in some Massachusetts communities overnight, bringing flooding to several areas.

www.wcvb.com

3 - 6 here. So much for the major snow storm. Which the storm is not major to begin with anyway. Unless you live in the mountains. @Figgy1

 

[Figgy1]

3 - 6 here. So much for the major snow storm. Which the storm is not major to begin with anyway. Unless you live in the mountains. @Figgy1

Still looking at up to a foot up here The cars have been covered and we're in until it's over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[John park hopper]

The video aside, I'm confused as to why you feel that what I highlighted is stupid. Having been a parent/grandparent for 50 years now I have to agree with it. I also think that way to much time is spent on video games but it doesn't create an evil person. At most it creates a person sadly lacking in social skill and knowledge beyond the skill levels targeted in the games.

I have a grandson that at 17 years old decided that since he was so good a "killing" the enemy in the games that he wanted to join the military when he turned 18. It took some extensive talking and a grandfather that had been in a war to point out that it's much harder to be great at that when they are shooting back at you with real bullets. His social skill are still none existent at 24 years old and he is still living at home, but life is entering into his brain box about what life is about since he was required to get a job, finally, by his parents. By the time I was 24 I had been to war, been married for a year and was expecting our first child. To me it isn't evil but it does truly account toward arrested development.

He has a knowledge of computers and programing that will set him up financially for life but to me it seems that it isn't a very happy life and it is true that he is not selling drugs or getting arrested and that is only one part of life and there is so much more, some good and some bad but it is all part of what creates a personality that allows for growth and accomplishments in the real game called life.

Your story sounds similar --My son and is year older buddy wanted to join the Army --Tommy joined and was sent to Afagnistain and my son was going to join when he graduated high school. Having been there and done that and seen how the government lies it took a lot of talking but I finally got him to give up on the idea of joining the Army. While Tommy was in Afghanistan I sent him monthly care packages, when he got back he was disillusioned got out of the Army, joined the Coast Guard and is much happier. Yup drafted at 18 sent to war at 19 forces you to grow up quick --we survived Goofyernmost--50+ thousand didn't and for what I still ask.

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[Figgy1]

 

[Goofyernmost]

Your story sounds similar --My son and is year older buddy wanted to join the Army --Tommy joined and was sent to Afagnistain and my son was going to join when he graduated high school. Having been there and done that and seen how the government lies it took a lot of talking but I finally got him to give up on the idea of joining the Army. While Tommy was in Afghanistan I sent him monthly care packages, when he got back he was disillusioned got out of the Army, joined the Coast Guard and is much happier. Yup drafted at 18 sent to war at 19 forces you to grow up quick --we survived Goofyernmost--50+ thousand didn't and for what I still ask.

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Very few things brings out my anger and my grief more than the wall in DC. I am normally very even emotionally, but that floods my insides like nothing else ever has.

 

[Figgy1]

 

[FutureCEO]

You would think someone in their mid 40's know W2's don't come out right after Jan 1st.

 

[Figgy1]

still not enough layers

 

[Figgy1]

 

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[Songbird76]

{{HUGS}} does E graduate this year?

Both E and A graduate this year. Because of the different levels they have here for high school, A is done after 5 years while E takes 6.

 

[Songbird76]

The video aside, I'm confused as to why you feel that what I highlighted is stupid. Having been a parent/grandparent for 50 years now I have to agree with it. I also think that way to much time is spent on video games but it doesn't create an evil person. At most it creates a person sadly lacking in social skill and knowledge beyond the skill levels targeted in the games.

I have a grandson that at 17 years old decided that since he was so good a "killing" the enemy in the games that he wanted to join the military when he turned 18. It took some extensive talking and a grandfather that had been in a war to point out that it's much harder to be great at that when they are shooting back at you with real bullets. His social skill are still none existent at 24 years old and he is still living at home, but life is entering into his brain box about what life is about since he was required to get a job, finally, by his parents. By the time I was 24 I had been to war, been married for a year and was expecting our first child. To me it isn't evil but it does truly account toward arrested development.

He has a knowledge of computers and programing that will set him up financially for life but to me it seems that it isn't a very happy life and it is true that he is not selling drugs or getting arrested and that is only one part of life and there is so much more, some good and some bad but it is all part of what creates a personality that allows for growth and accomplishments in the real game called life. Real life is so much more than making money. Money helps us to stay alive, but it isn't needed to have an accomplished life.

On the other hand, whose definition of happy are you using? Perhaps YOU wouldn't be happy with that lifestyle, but he might be. I don't think we should necessarily work so hard to have an "accomplished" life. I'd rather be happy. I love singing, but I'd much rather have my family and sing when I want to than chasing fame or awards for my music. I won't ever win a Grammy, but in the end, would a Grammy make me happier than being a mom has? I think the best choices are the ones you make just for your own happiness and well-being rather than anyone else's idea of what we should be doing based on THEIR priorities. I spent decades trying to please my mom and make her proud of me. I was so much happier when I let that go and did what -I- wanted for a change. She was furious with me, but it was what I needed, and in the end, I couldn't live my life for her. She would someday be gone and I'd be left with settling for what SHE had wanted for me and missed out on years of being happy. It wasn't a price I was willing to pay. My Father-in-law loves to garden and hates reading. I'm the opposite. We may not understand each other's love for our hobbies, but as we are the ones doing them, it shouldn't matter if we'd make the same choices the other would.

 

[Goofyernmost]

On the other hand, whose definition of happy are you using? Perhaps YOU wouldn't be happy with that lifestyle, but he might be. I don't think we should necessarily work so hard to have an "accomplished" life. I'd rather be happy. I love singing, but I'd much rather have my family and sing when I want to than chasing fame or awards for my music. I won't ever win a Grammy, but in the end, would a Grammy make me happier than being a mom has? I think the best choices are the ones you make just for your own happiness and well-being rather than anyone else's idea of what we should be doing based on THEIR priorities. I spent decades trying to please my mom and make her proud of me. I was so much happier when I let that go and did what -I- wanted for a change. She was furious with me, but it was what I needed, and in the end, I couldn't live my life for her. She would someday be gone and I'd be left with settling for what SHE had wanted for me and missed out on years of being happy. It wasn't a price I was willing to pay. My Father-in-law loves to garden and hates reading. I'm the opposite. We may not understand each other's love for our hobbies, but as we are the ones doing them, it shouldn't matter if we'd make the same choices the other would.

I think it goes without saying that every situation is different. You are talking about being blocked or attempt to be block what you wanted to do with your life. Certainly playing video games is not a lifelong goal. At some point reality has to either be sought or forced upon people. Otherwise who is going to pay for the electricity to run the huge quantity of electronics. At some point in life everyone has to be able to adapt to life as it is or the only real occupation will be a phycologist teaching stuff that people should have learned in their adolescent years. There is a world of difference between saying, you are not going to be something I don't want you to be and saying get off your butt and become whatever it is you want to be, just do something.

 

[Figgy1]

Our watch has officially now a winter storm warning

 

[Cesar R M]

So.. the Mexican peso has recovered almost 30% of its value since our "communist" president took over.
Something that never happened before. There was always a massive devaluation every switch. I'm impressed.
The bad? the payments I'm getting in USD are worth less and less every month when I'm trying to pay my Mexican debts lol XD

 

[Cesar R M]

Certainly playing video games is not a lifelong goal.

For some it is..

Look at players like Ninja, they made themselves millonaires. Of course, you have to keep the brand or you lose it quickly.
Thats why some dumb players like Ninja are now irrelevant and other legends are still sough.
There are some who knew when to switch from gaming to something adjacent (like KingPin, who ended creating his brand in gaming equipment and overclocking for computer enthusiasts).

There are also many pro gamers getting a lot of money while streaming.
Like Markiplier.. Whose power is in the 100's of millions per year.