Where is their other half?
VIP tours have been around for a long time. They seemingly are much harder to book now than they were before though. I am not sure if all the guides have been called back or not. So are people wanting to spend more or something else making them hard? They were sold out 5-6 days from 60 days in March. So if you had a 4 day trip you were left out this year as an FYI.
I'll be honest here, there have always been "class" differences even once the values were built. The treatment one gets and the ability to find dining, get special services and little extras has been there a long time. I sometimes wonder did the internet make people aware of the differences or has Disney not hidden it as well?
I will disagree about letting you in and not having fun. In March we didn't do anything special (it was all sold out) and still had a great time. Granted we were staying at Polynesian so we did have the extra night hours - which were very nice! But we didn't do Genie+ because I didn't see times for things we wanted to do early enough so we didn't do it. We had a blast! A total blast.
I do think things like park reservations are more of a hindrance than the extra$$$ to the average family going. We had friends going at the same time, off site but Bonnet Creek. The oldest was a senior in HS and planned with their friend for a senior trip. This family had been before and knew a ton about Disney. However they had not heard about the park reservations. So they drove all the way to Florida and couldn't get it. We resort hopped with them one afternoon so we made the best of it. The over planning and shutting people out will bite them faster than the add ons. JMO after thinking about it some.