This is precisely the myopic perception that's so prevalent back here amongst the Disney obsessed.
Given my presence on the forums one could make a strong argument that I'm exponentially more Disney obsessed than the typical, casual visitor, and yet, despite having seen Bambi, I couldn't tell you who Flower was. Thumper, on the other hand, I do recall.
Sorry, but if you can't recall who Flower is, you are clearly not "Disney-obsessed" as far as the Disney Animated Classic Films go. You ARE "Disney-obsessed" regarding the parks.
By contrast, I frequent boards where people know the cannon of DACs INSIDE AND OUT - every major and minor character, every line of dialogue, who animated what scene, etc., and yet some of those posters know very little about the parks, and have little interest in them.
Me, I'm obsessed with BOTH, but my favorite park attractions have always been largely those based on the Animated Classics, their characters, their stories, and their songs. If you ask me to define what the word "Disney" means to me, the first thing I think of is Snow White, Pinocchio, Dumbo, Pooh, Cinderella, Alice, Peter Pan, Lady and the Tramp, Sleeping Beauty, Little Mermaid, Beauty and the Beast, etc, and of course the "Fab 5" (and pals) from the shorts - Mickey, Minnie, Donald, Pluto, Goofy, Chip n Dale, etc.
I do NOT think of Pirates, or Haunted Houses, or Star Wars, or Aerosmith, or the Twilight Zone. I enjoy those park-unique "Disney" things (though not as much as other, cuter, park-unique Disney attractions like Small World, Country Bears, Tiki Birds, and Figment) .
But in my opinion, the most ICONIC characters and stories that DEFINE Disney to me are the Animated Classics, particularly the more well-known types I described above.
Which is why Fantasyland has always been my favorite "land" in any Disney park, and the one I want to run to first! (Despite being a "boy" who supposedly aren't supposed to like these things!)
PS. And even though "boys" are "supposed" to like the villains (according to others in this thread), I've always HATED them!