Yeah, to each their own.
But......damn!
HM not in your "Top 20"?
Can't get my head around that one....:lol:
Ok, I'll try...
Because since it doesn't have a linear "story", (like Snow White, Pan, Pooh, Splash Mountain, etc) it's all about atmosphere.
So my enjoyment of it will really depend on how much I like the atmosphere.
Now, Small World, Killimanjaro Safari, etc., are examples of rides where I LOVE the atmosphere, despite them having WIDELY different atmospheres. In Small World, you have the festive, happy, atmosphere of the children of the world, and their animal friends, singing in peace and harmony. It makes me feel "warm and fuzzy" inside , and makes me me happy, goosebumps, etc. The WHOLE ESSENCE of what Disney is about to me. And I LOVE the catchy music, too! In fact, IASW is my favorite attraction at WDW, which proves that despite my going on about the importance of "story", I can also love an attraction without a linear story, if the atmosphere blows me away.
Killiimanjaro Safaris has a completely different atmosphere than IASW, but one I also love. Being out on Safari, in awe of the real animals surrounding you in an atmosphere that looks convincingly like their real African homes. Again, this is very inspiring to me, emotionally.
In both cases, if one could suspend disbelief long enough to believe what one is seeing is real, and you could be zapped into this world in real life for a day, I'd love to do it!
This is the case for all my Disney favorites, as they represent interesting "escapism" from the "real world".
So where does that leave the Haunted Mansion? If I look at it "objectively", I can see that it does a good job (no, a FANTASTIC job!) of creating atmosphere, but it's an atmosphere I don't long for or enjoy being immersed in. I've never cared for haunted houses, the supernatural, the occult, horror, cemetaries, or the darker aspects of Halloween. I HATE all those things. Haunted Houses are almost always my LEAST favorite attraction in each park I visit that has one.
So if the world I am viewing on the ride could be "real" and I was given the choice of living in it for a day, I'd head for the hills! The real world, with all of its blandness (relative to most of my WDW faves), would be more appealing to me.
I do appreaciate that the tone of the Haunted Mansion is lighter than it could have been, or else I'd probably skip it completely. I'm NOT saying I don't ride it or find NOTHING redeeming in it - just that it's not in my Top 20, for the reasons I explained above.
Now, some might be wondering how I can love the Snow White ride so much since that ride has dark elements as well. The answer is multifold. Those darker elements in SW are part of the story and the dread they can induce makes the payoff of the Happy Ending even sweeter. Whereas after sitting through all the gloom, HM doesn't have the payoff of a euphoric Disneyesque Happy Ending - just a reminder that sadly, we too, will one day be dead ("Hurry back, be sure to bring your death certificate"). Also, the dark elements of Snow White don't deal with creepy things like corpses, cemetaries, and ghosts like the HM does, with the notable exception of the skeleton in the witch's dungeon - which thankfully only takes 1 or 2 seconds to pass by, and then it's over.
Where HM shines the most for me is the technology. Problem is, out of story, atmosphere, and technology, tech is the LEAST important thing I look for in a Disney attraction. Sure, every single time I see through the ghosts, I marvel at "how did they do that" (and I don't want to know, either, as that would ruin the illusion!) But since the attraction neither moves me EMOTIONALLY, or gives me that magical Disney "warm and fuzzy" feeling that at least 20 others in the MK do - well that alone right there explains why - when I am COMPLETELY honest with myself and my feelings - I couldn't possibly put it in my MK Top 20.
My EMOTIONAL response to the attractions is the number one factor in my personal rankings, just as it is the number one factor in how I rate movies.