i don't know nibbs...
friday night i refused to talk to all forms of girls... finally like 1:30 i'm like "i let at least 6 chances go, two of the girls seemed to be kind of 'eye flirting' with me too... i'm gonna talk to SOMEONE"
so i went up to a girl sitting at the bar... went in next to her to get a beer and was like (to myself) "oh my god, words... WORDS..."
couldn't think of ANYTHING... kindly apologized for squeezing in so tight to at least get a small form of dialogue going, and then said this;
"alright, i saw you from across the bar and i thought you were cute and so i wanted to comeover and talk to ya, but i'm not really comfortable approaching girls and honestly don't know how to do it... what like... would you reccommend as a good way to approach someone... maybe some friendly advice?"
she laughed at my awkwardness, told me some guy approached her the night before by saying he thought he recognized her from somewhere... but then said "but, your approach wasn't really that bad as it was... original" and smiled...
we talked for like 3-4 minutes, then i was ordering my beer and she like turned somewhat back to her friends while i was doing that... and so i decided to take this as a sign of not being interested... and just walked away when i got my beer...
hahaha
my buddy watched it all go down and was like "what happened? looked like you were doing well, then you just left?"
i was like "i'm too awkward... let's takeoff"
hahaha
one day i'll figure it out...