A few misconceptions on your part.
We have walked to the West Side of DS from the Grandstand in about 5 minutes. Not a bad walk at all. I would also count the quiet pools and boat transport to DS as an advantage as well.
SSR is less than a 10 minute drive to MK, EPCOT, and HS, so hardly distant.
As far as not having a Disney feel, I have to ask - what kind of Disney feel do the Contemporary, Grand Floridian, Beach Club, Yacht Club, or Old Key West have? What does "have a Disney feel" mean to you? All of them have subtle Disney touches, as does SSR. Of course, this is my opinion, and I know that some people disagree with it.