They were your comments about legitimately disabled people getting a better vacation because of the cards and I tried to explain that isn't so. I didn't make it up, I didn't put words in your mouth. It was your quote. If I'm not articulating that well enough I would be more than happy to meet you face to face and discuss it over a cold beverage at the world, so you can see first hand that the card is not giving the disabled or their family a better experience than you have. It's a hassle, it's stressful, you miss out on many things you would like to do. But you want to make your family happy, and that makes all of the crap you have to put up with, including insensitive people, deliberate or not, who don't understand what its like, worth it. You just want to have your family member, who goes through so much, have that wonderful time, sometimes the very limited time they have left. I would be more than happy to discuss this. I'd even pay for that cold beverage
And no matter what system is put in place, there will be people who scam it. You cannot make all of these stark, specific, idiosyncratic rules, down to every possible detail and situation without hindering the legitmately disabled in some way. There will always be a broad systembecause it works. And no system is infallible to fraud. The big thing that's being missed here is that it's so easy for some people to say what the
disabled should do, when they have no idea what their experience is like. It's easy to make all these rules and expect people to follow them and just accept some inconvenience, except, ironically, inconvenience seems to be the big thing some of you guys don't want to deal with yourselves and seems to be the crux of the anger/frustration towards these cards.