To be fair…
Since we travel somewhat “frequently” to California now…I totally see the differences in the weekend/frequented crowd at Disneyland…that’s why they’re like half passes.
But in New Jersey…wdw almost becomes our “local”…there is no more Disney obsessed state - per capita. When dvc published a map in their newsletter umpteen years ago of where the “members” were…new Jersey was third in raw numbers…behind Florida and New York…way below the population sizes.
We also have a ton of covenient flight options…less so now but still…every airport from the east flies the most flights to Orlando.
So in a way…we kinda make it like our Disneyland in usage often times.
If you have the means…costs have risen 300% in 20 years…and I don’t exaggerate. People here will tell you “everything has!

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Nope…that’s a stupid stance…the products and means aren’t all the same. It’s expensive. So that really has to be where your comfort level is.