That's a completely fair approach. I'm one of those who's ranted about the changes and I think they're going to be awful for basically everyone. That said, I really do long for walking through the parks with medium-sized crowds, riding the rides, the experience in general. I'm with you there, and when I watch Youtube walk-thrus, it makes me miss it. I just think that I'm missing something that's not there anymore, at least not right now. Of course I miss rides that aren't there anymore... ExAE, SoC, TT1.0, Backlot Tour, TGMR, so on and so forth. I also miss the 30 min wait to get on HM or PotC, walk off and get right back into line to ride it again. Riding the ride twice in an hour goes way back to pre-FP though. It was my happy place in the '00s.
I'm not 100% sure, but I think if/when I take another trip, all the over-complication of the process is going to ruin it for me. Sometimes I can't get out of my own head. I can be good at letting things go, but I have the feeling that the experience of planning and trying to get LL on G+ while on vacation is going to trigger me and cause me not to enjoy what's actually in front of me. I'm a very patient person, but once I get to my breaking point, it's really hard for me to recover. I don't want to spend $8k - $10k to be p!ssed off for a week. Again, just my opinion. I'm sure there are plenty of parents who feel the same way with their small kids in tow. Why spend so much money for so much aggravation, and that was BEFORE all the complication of the process.
I have no kids, but I've seen the look on parents faces when they're in the parks with small kids. For every moment of joy of seeing the look on their kids face, there's someone yanking their kid by the arm in parental desperation. I'm not blaming them. Just saying it ain't easy being a parent with a kid who's overstimulated. Why would a parent want to do that to themselves more than once every several years.
That said, everyone is different, so I don't begrudge anyone else if they ARE able to enjoy the Parks in its current state. I just don't think I can. Perhaps, one day in the future, I might give myself the chance to try, but as of right now, not so much. Maybe I'll wait for the price increases to thin the herd a bit.
Btw, hope you have a fantastic time with the Girls' trip!! Being with the girls should help make it a great time!