jaklgreen
Well-Known Member
Agreed.
As the father of an Autistic child (and apparently high functioning myself according to the specialist), we have had to learn that he does not always see things the way we do or respond the way we would expect someone to. HOWEVER, we have also worked very hard to make him understand that the world does not begin and end with him, that his actions affect the world beyond himself and that if he wishes to participate in society, he needs to learn to adapt just as we do. We've been lucky in that our son has responded to these challenges. While not always easy (read never), he has taken big steps with modest adjustments from everyone around him. He has come to understand that in places like Disney (his favourite place in the world I might add), he needs to wait like everyone else. He understands that if it's too much for him he doesn't have to wait, but that there are consequences to making that decision (no ride being one of them). He understands that his family may still go and enjoy themselves without him.
Does he still have meltdowns? You bet. Are they every day? Not anymore.
Is this typical? I doubt it, but I also fully believe that he will be better prepared for the real world than many of those who have been diagnosed to this point.
I am so glad. Keep at it. It is so amazing to see another milestone when they have them. As I just posted, I would recommend looking into what foods they eat. They do know that they process food differently. My sister cut out dairy and soy from her diet and almost instantly it made a huge difference. I am no expert and can just comment on our experience but I truly believe that is the the food we are eating now that has done this to their brain. Too many preservatives and hormones in the food now, and over processed foods. I do not think it is a coincidence that the number of autistic and ADHD cases has sky rocketed in the last 20 years when these types of foods have become more common.