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MJ's Pixie Dust Gang

nibblesandbits

nibblesandbits

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So...here's a quandry...

Today, I went to the bank to drop off a check. While I was there, I saw someone who looked like someone I'd had a crush on in elementary school. He had a girl with him, but I wanted to know if it was him. I asked him if he was who I thought and he said yes. That was pretty much the conversation. So why is it...that when I got back to my car...I was nervous and "shaky." This is someone I have absolutely no interest in now...especially since I'm married. It's just funny that all those old nervous feelings from my childhood come rushing back.
 
Uponastar

Uponastar

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nibblesandbits said:
So...here's a quandry...

Today, I went to the bank to drop off a check. While I was there, I saw someone who looked like someone I'd had a crush on in elementary school. He had a girl with him, but I wanted to know if it was him. I asked him if he was who I thought and he said yes. That was pretty much the conversation. So why is it...that when I got back to my car...I was nervous and "shaky." This is someone I have absolutely no interest in now...especially since I'm married. It's just funny that all those old nervous feelings from my childhood come rushing back.
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Probably, you just weren't expecting to see this person, so, even though he means nothing to you, it was a bit of a shock.
You're all over the place with emotions right now, Nibbs, so this just added a little fuel to the fire.
Once you get home to What's-His-Face tonight, you'll forget all about it!
 
Nemo14

Nemo14

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nibblesandbits said:
So...here's a quandry...

Today, I went to the bank to drop off a check. While I was there, I saw someone who looked like someone I'd had a crush on in elementary school. He had a girl with him, but I wanted to know if it was him. I asked him if he was who I thought and he said yes. That was pretty much the conversation. So why is it...that when I got back to my car...I was nervous and "shaky." This is someone I have absolutely no interest in now...especially since I'm married. It's just funny that all those old nervous feelings from my childhood come rushing back.
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Just because you're married doesn't mean you're dead! :lol:
 
nibblesandbits

nibblesandbits

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Uponastar said:
Probably, you just weren't expecting to see this person, so, even though he means nothing to you, it was a bit of a shock.
You're all over the place with emotions right now, Nibbs, so this just added a little fuel to the fire.
Once you get home to What's-His-Face tonight, you'll forget all about it!
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oh...I'm fine now...I just thought it was funny.

And I realized that life does have a funny way of working out...because I'm so thankful that I didn't end up dating him. He turned out to be a skater type and that so isn't my type at all.
 
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Fantasmic!329

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Uponastar said:
Have fun Freddy! :wave:
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Thanks, it was a lot of fun!
dandaman said:
This was exactly the case with meeting up with Bonny, only it applied to Dad's uncertainty. :lol:
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I hear ya....:(
MommytoMJM said:
:) okay. Danny showed his mom too
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Sounds like a plan. :)
MommytoMJM said:
We can arrange that and in theory she is supposed to be coming in a few moths to see me!
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Once I know if/when we'll be down, we can plan. :D


Oh, forgot to quote this, but Joanna: I (used to) play the clarinet, too!
 
Uponastar

Uponastar

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nibblesandbits said:
And your Nibblies is doing fine today. She is coping with the possible moving aspect much better now...but is still upset about the idea.
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My mom is in a nursing home and my daughter is living in her house. When my mom passes away, we will have to sell the house and give the proceeds to the Home. My mom lived in that house from the time she was 1 year old till she was 81! I grew up in that house. It is so full of memories that I can't even begin to image what it will feel like to let it go.
Change can be hard, but as long as it's a change that moves you forward, it's a step in the right direction!
 
Nemo14

Nemo14

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Uponastar said:
My mom is in a nursing home and my daughter is living in her house. When my mom passes away, we will have to sell the house and give the proceeds to the Home. My mom lived in that house from the time she was 1 year old till she was 81! I grew up in that house. It is so full of memories that I can't even begin to image what it will feel like to let it go.
Change can be hard, but as long as it's a change that moves you forward, it's a step in the right direction!
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That's what we're going through with MIL's house right now - only DH and BIL have renovated the house and will be renting it out next week. It's going to be so strange not going there for holidays....
 
nibblesandbits

nibblesandbits

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Uponastar said:
My mom is in a nursing home and my daughter is living in her house. When my mom passes away, we will have to sell the house and give the proceeds to the Home. My mom lived in that house from the time she was 1 year old till she was 81! I grew up in that house. It is so full of memories that I can't even begin to image what it will feel like to let it go.
Change can be hard, but as long as it's a change that moves you forward, it's a step in the right direction!
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You are always so full of good advice! :kiss:

The weird thing is that I'm not even really attached to this house. I loved my first house so much more than this one. I think I'm just more upset (and granted...it isn't 100% that it's happening...but probably around 80% that is is) because since I moved out of this house to what's his face's apartment, I've still had my safe haven here. My stuff is still here. My room is still a disaster...just like I left it. And I guess if the move does take place...that means that I'm not a kid anymore. I'm a grown-up. That I loose that part of my life. Not to say that I'm never going to have fun as a grown up...it's just hard to think of myself in those terms.

hmm...you could really be a therapist Dot...because I hadn't realized that was one of the things taht was making me upset too.
 
Uponastar

Uponastar

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Nemo14 said:
That's what we're going through with MIL's house right now - only DH and BIL have renovated the house and will be renting it out next week. It's going to be so strange not going there for holidays....
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It's hard.
But you create new memories in new spaces.
And so it goes. . .
 
Uponastar

Uponastar

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nibblesandbits said:
You are always so full of good advice! :kiss:

The weird thing is that I'm not even really attached to this house. I loved my first house so much more than this one. I think I'm just more upset (and granted...it isn't 100% that it's happening...but probably around 80% that is is) because since I moved out of this house to what's his face's apartment, I've still had my safe haven here. My stuff is still here. My room is still a disaster...just like I left it. And I guess if the move does take place...that means that I'm not a kid anymore. I'm a grown-up. That I loose that part of my life. Not to say that I'm never going to have fun as a grown up...it's just hard to think of myself in those terms.

hmm...you could really be a therapist Dot...because I hadn't realized that was one of the things taht was making me upset too.
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And there you have it! I think most of those feelings are really because of it happening (if it does happen) so soon after your wedding. You're still in the adjusting mode.
Funny you should say that about not being really attached to that house. Because I feel that way about my mom's house too. I never liked it and there were too many not so good times there, but still. . .it was home.
 
nibblesandbits

nibblesandbits

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Nemo14 said:
Change can be good too, and you've got so much to look forward to Nibbs!
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Uponastar said:
And there you have it! I think most of those feelings are really because of it happening (if it does happen) so soon after your wedding. You're still in the adjusting mode.
Funny you should say that about not being really attached to that house. Because I feel that way about my mom's house too. I never liked it and there were too many not so good times there, but still. . .it was home.
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Yes...you are both very right. You guys are the best! Big :kiss: to both of you!
 

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