Ah well...since you asked...
Remember when I told you that I was getting the "hey baby" vibe from FIL? Well, I wasn't the only one. Turns out he was putting MAJOR moves on SIL (his own stepdaughter...pardon me while I :hurl

while promising her all kinds of help in getting a house, so she could leave her unhappy marriage. The short version is she lived in fear of his attentions while trying not to alienate him, in order to avoid being cut off from everything MIL worked for (the will states all goes to surviving partner, then is divided among the children). The whole thing is quite sickening...when MIL met FIL, she owned her house outright and had quite the stash put away. Now, it's all his. Which, I don't care about the money, I feel bad for Grant and his sister...Grant can't even go to his mom's house without permission and he would die before he asked.
Anyways, that's just the back story to the latest manifestation of craziness. Back before FIL met his girlfriend, he had MIL's fur altered for SIL and also promised to help her with the house, all(his words) in the name of his dead wife, her mother. On top of which he was supposed to give her Mom's ring. Lest is sound like she is greedy, I should state all this stuff was offered not asked for, and all of it has since been retracted.
Gah...I have stopped calling him because I can no longer stomach faking niceness after what I know he has tried with SIL. Just can't do it.
Have I mentioned I'm writing a book?