Necroing the thread just to say I have seen so many line jumpers lately. At the end of the day, I suppose it barely makes a difference in the wait but it's just so rude to me. I never saw a single line cutter in Tokyo Disney while I was there. It simply amazes me by how dishonest people can be.
In my opinion, this is part of the burgeoning attitude of
"I will do whatever I want, and I don't care if you don't like it."
Remember back prior to the 00's society seemed to push the concepts "good manners" and "Etiquette"? Think about it, when is the last time you heard any focus on those concepts? Been a while. It is out of style to worry about how you affect others. Now it is about how others need to accommodate you. This is a core philosophical change and has both good and bad repercussions. I will say, self-esteem levels are way up. Yay? Where does esteem become narcissism? Trick question, it is all on a spectrum.
"Children should be seen and not heard" will get CPS called on you.
It spans all areas of society, from homeowners associations to personal appearance to the teacher-student dynamic.
Immediately, my arduous daily commute comes to mind. From the last-minute cut-ins, the slow folks in the fast lane, the last-minute merge maniacs, the soccer dads and spandex-bicyclists who have to run to Walmart during rush hour, to the people that insist on parking in front of my house, the experience is just rank with people who clearly don't have a concern past their own agenda.
The other place I am seeing this is in one of my favorite restaurants. This is a $120+ a person joint. You go there for the entire experience. In the last 10 years, there is a drastic increase of men wearing hats and Hawaiian shirts w' shorts while dining. Sure, the establishment could set a dress code, but should they have to? I will say, the women seem to get it.
Everyone's defense for the boorish behavior is almost always... "it is my right" and/or "it is none of your business".
The thing is, technically, they are right. The battle for considering others before one's self is long lost.