Just to jump on this really quickly. This is also a sensitive topic for me with my experiences with some family members and a good friend of mine who has a special needs child. Some people can't comprehend that not all handicaps are visible. But what makes me even angrier is that many people believe that because they've either seen, or have known, people who abuse the system. For example. My Mom had a handicapped placard and I would never use it when using her vehicle unless she was with me and we would use it in our car if she was riding with us. Because, obviously, that's what it's for. However. And this is a HUGE however. When I went on an out of town trip with my husband's family, his extremely able bodied brother used his grandmother's handicap parking placard to park closer to the hotel, etc. Was his grandmother with him? NO!!! She loaned it to him to make his life easier. I said something because that's taking spots away from people who legit have a need for it - like my mom, grandfather, and my friend for her son. Yet his family had an issue with me calling him out on his BS and thought I was being judgmental lol. It's people like my BIL that probably make people like this poster think that anyone who appears "normal" and is using a wheelchair is trying to game the system or something.