Going to go read all the posts but I wanted to post my own experience.
I love Disney and probably always will. Even as the spring comes I am aching for a trip as me and my family would always go Easter week. It feels so weird not to be going. But my last trip was in 2017...I can't believe it feels like it has been 20 years ago! But with a busy theater schedule and a desire to travel to Hawaii I decided to skip. but even back then I thought the magic was slowly starting to fade for me. For me, the new technology and advancements Disney has been installing has just made everything feel too clinical to robotic. People love it but I HATE the idea of scheduling a ride 3 months in advance. Restaurants are one thing but rides?
There's also been that whole over commercialized feel of Disney as they gained more franchises. I love Marvel. love Star Wars but Disney did a better job with Star Wars when it was just Star Wars weekends. They were fun and goofy. those kind of events actually made me appreciate the prequels. Now, everything is just so serious and dark and boring. I miss the old Hollywood studios with the Stars and Cars parade and things like that.
I miss finding random 'magic moments.' a few years ago, my family and I had decided to sit at the noodle station while we waited for more of our party to finish whatever rides they were on. We ended up staying and watched the castle fireworks on the terrace and it was amazing. The next year it was closed for a desert party...Suddenly any special spot that could be claimed for and extra was taken...it was really weird.
I am not a fan of a lot of the changes being made. I want Splash Mountain to stay the way it is. I want Frozen out of the Maelstrom. and I want the Poly to still look like a rustic tropical Island...not a Moana plug (though I love the movie). But that's all just me. I know new comers who are younger and more flexible will replace me. I know I will get used to the changes as we all always do even if begrudgingly (looking at your Poly lobby fountain). But I have lost my desire for Disney. I went every single year from 2005 to 2017. Went at the most expensive time and stayed at the most expensive hotel (Polynesian). Not saying that I feel entitled but I do feel that when you physically see the changes being made, and not for the better, you start to wonder if you may enjoy yourself better somewhere else.
I do plan to go back one day but right now, Disney isn't my Disney anymore. And that's fine.