You guys are all so busy when you are there (or at least most of you are). I'm on vacation, so I don't really see a point in rope drop every day, especially considering the new fast pass system doesn't lend itself as much to that. I'd rather get a little later start and stay until closing each night. Granted, I'm also not a morning person. As for the hotel question, I do enjoy going back for a rest at some point during the day. Though, I have been there quite a few times, so I also don't feel like I'm missing out and I know my strategy/plan for when I go back into the parks. I do enjoy exploring the resort I'm staying at. They put so much effort into it it would be wasted not to see what's going on. And at Fort Wilderness they have the fireplaces on the higher levels in the main lobby, which I enjoy sitting next to and relaxing.
With all that said, I'm also in the parks a lot, just at a more casual pace. But hey, however you enjoy WDW doesn't matter, as long as you're having a good time.