Hot Chocolate with Magic Friends

[nibblesandbits]

It'll all be fine, Steph.
My advice...Put the wedding plans on hold until after you move. You'll catch up. Trying to do both things at once will only stress you out.
Look at your check-list carefully and see what absolutely must be done before you move, if anything, and do it now. Then put the list away and concentrate on the move.

exactly...she just said it better and first. :lol:

 

[Nemo14]

Meh. They're overrated.

true - as long as you can still wear stilettos, then I guess it's OK. :lookaroun

 

[nibblesandbits]

She was the bride, Nibbs. You've been in the biz long enough to know how that is. I give her credit for making the move to make things better between you. You can both move on and forget it now.

Yes...I understand that totally and I am definitely moving on now. I just hope that now that I've told her what I needed to she can. I think she can, but it's gonna be a little rocky for the first 15 minutes or so when we see each other next. Although I'm going to try my hardest for it not to be.

 

[nibblesandbits]

true - as long as you can still wear stilettos, then I guess it's OK. :lookaroun

I hope she's wearing something else with it! Even if it's just a brown paper sack! :lookaroun

 

[Disnut]

:ROFLOL::ROFLOL:







I'm not 100% positive, but I think my dad said that he (his company?) is changing insurances, and it only goes up to age 22. I turn 23 in July.

As to what you said Betty, I'm not sure. I have to check to see if my school has an insurance policy thingy.

Doesn't he have insurance for you as long as you are a full time student???

 

[mpoppins76]

Oh...and why is it that you can tell people what makes a photo look better and tell them how they should set a collage up and then they say, no I want it this way. Then when they come in and say I don't like it and then when you suggest what you originally suggested, they think you're a genius. :lol:

:hammer:

It'll all be fine, Steph.
My advice...Put the wedding plans on hold until after you move. You'll catch up. Trying to do both things at once will only stress you out.
Look at your check-list carefully and see what absolutely must be done before you move, if anything, and do it now. Then put the list away and concentrate on the move.

I wish we could do that. But we have to meet and decide all of these vendors when we're back in Nebraska in February. We're making a special trip there for the sole purpose of planning and need to make it worth the trip. Plus we won't be back there again until July and we'll only have a few hours that trip to devote to planning because we'll be busy w/ my cousin's wedding. And then we won't be back again until our wedding! :dazzle: So...this trip in February is essentially it for anything we need to do in person.
:dazzle::dazzle::dazzle:

*breathe, breathe*

 

[Uponastar]

Yes...I understand that totally and I am definitely moving on now. I just hope that now that I've told her what I needed to she can. I think she can, but it's gonna be a little rocky for the first 15 minutes or so when we see each other next. Although I'm going to try my hardest for it not to be.

Good for both of you.

 

[nibblesandbits]

Good for both of you.

I hope so.

 

[Nemo14]

:hammer:

I wish we could do that. But we have to meet and decide all of these vendors when we're back in Nebraska in February. We're making a special trip there for the sole purpose of planning and need to make it worth the trip. Plus we won't be back there again until July and we'll only have a few hours that trip to devote to planning because we'll be busy w/ my cousin's wedding. And then we won't be back again until our wedding! :dazzle: So...this trip in February is essentially it for anything we need to do in person.
:dazzle::dazzle::dazzle:

*breathe, breathe*

*passes the Windex to Steph*

 

[k.hunter30]

Popping in. :wave:

Hello friends. Nibbs, I'm glad you had a chance to start working things out with your new sister-in-law. Steph, Dot has some great advice about not worrying about everything all at once. I like to call it "prioritizing your worries." :lol: Jo, under most insurance plans, kids are covered until they're out of school I thought. Does that apply to you? Everyone else - *hugs*

 

[Uponastar]

Popping in. :wave:

Hello friends. Nibbs, I'm glad you had a chance to start working things out with your new sister-in-law. Steph, Dot has some great advice about not worrying about everything all at once. I like to call it "prioritizing your worries." :lol: Jo, under most insurance plans, kids are covered until they're out of school I thought. Does that apply to you? Everyone else - *hugs*

Hello Kat! :kiss:

 

[mpoppins76]

I'm not 100% positive, but I think my dad said that he (his company?) is changing insurances, and it only goes up to age 22. I turn 23 in July.

As to what you said Betty, I'm not sure. I have to check to see if my school has an insurance policy thingy.

Definatetly check it out, I bet they do. I was on COBRA w/ my parents for awhile. It was a little more $$ but at least I was insured.

Steph, there is no reason to get all strung out on all this. There is no need to have a specific timetable either...so if it's that that's stressing you, throw it out the window. What matters is that you have the list of things that need to be done (not the things you want to be done, but NEED to be done) make sure you accomplish those things and then get the things you want to be done when you maybe have time. If you miss out on something you want...it's not the end of the world. But you should do it all on your own time. Especially if it's really stressing you.

That's true....

true - as long as you can still wear stilettos, then I guess it's OK. :lookaroun

Definately stilettos, that's not even an option :king:

I hope she's wearing something else with it! Even if it's just a brown paper sack! :lookaroun

Ooooo! Now THAT would be a unique look!! :lol:

 

[Disnut]

Hello Kat. How are you today?

 

[Nemo14]

I think it depends on the company - health insurance, as you know, has really buckled down on a lot of things lately.

 

[Uponastar]

:hammer:

I wish we could do that. But we have to meet and decide all of these vendors when we're back in Nebraska in February. We're making a special trip there for the sole purpose of planning and need to make it worth the trip. Plus we won't be back there again until July and we'll only have a few hours that trip to devote to planning because we'll be busy w/ my cousin's wedding. And then we won't be back again until our wedding! :dazzle: So...this trip in February is essentially it for anything we need to do in person.
:dazzle::dazzle::dazzle:

*breathe, breathe*

Okay, so you'll do it. You know you will. Do only what you absolutely need to for now. Those check-lists are only guidelines. They're not written in stone. I promise you, it will be okay. But first you need to get a grip and remember that in the end it only matters that you're married. The rest will fall into place.
Love you. :kiss:

 

[k.hunter30]

Hello Kat! :kiss:

:kiss:

Hello Kat. How are you today?

:kiss:
I'm lovely. Busy week at work, but the week is going well. We're heading over to a friends house tonight to play Rockstar or something like that on the Wii... It'll be interesting.

EDIT: It's called Rockband

 

[mpoppins76]

*passes the Windex to Steph*

*chugs*

Popping in. :wave:

Hello friends. Nibbs, I'm glad you had a chance to start working things out with your new sister-in-law. Steph, Dot has some great advice about not worrying about everything all at once. I like to call it "prioritizing your worries." :lol: Jo, under most insurance plans, kids are covered until they're out of school I thought. Does that apply to you? Everyone else - *hugs*

Hi Kat. :kiss:

Thanks, that's what I'm trying to do is prioritize for our trip next month...it's just my prioritized list of things we have to do this trip is getting pretty long.
BUT we can do it! :sohappy:

 

[joanna71985]

Doesn't he have insurance for you as long as you are a full time student???

Not sure, but I will be finding out.

Popping in. :wave:

Hello friends. Nibbs, I'm glad you had a chance to start working things out with your new sister-in-law. Steph, Dot has some great advice about not worrying about everything all at once. I like to call it "prioritizing your worries." :lol: Jo, under most insurance plans, kids are covered until they're out of school I thought. Does that apply to you? Everyone else - *hugs*

Hey Kat.

Definatetly check it out, I bet they do. I was on COBRA w/ my parents for awhile. It was a little more $$ but at least I was insured.

Ooooo! Now THAT would be a unique look!! :lol:

I will.

Um, I don't think so.:dazzle:

I think it depends on the company - health insurance, as you know, has really buckled down on a lot of things lately.

True.

 

[mpoppins76]

Okay, so you'll do it. You know you will. Do only what you absolutely need to for now. Those check-lists are only guidelines. They're not written in stone. I promise you, it will be okay. But first you need to get a grip and remember that in the end it only matters that you're married. The rest will fall into place.
Love you. :kiss:

*sigh* You're right. Thanks. Love ya back :kiss:

I'm lovely. Busy week at work, but the week is going well. We're heading over to a friends house tonight to play Rockstar or something like that on the Wii... It'll be interesting.

Oh that sounds like fun! Take pictures!

 

[k.hunter30]

*chugs*

Hi Kat. :kiss:

Thanks, that's what I'm trying to do is prioritize for our trip next month...it's just my prioritized list of things we have to do this trip is getting pretty long.
BUT we can do it! :sohappy:

That's a good attitude Steph. We're in your corner!
*hugs*