mousefan1972
Well-Known Member
You also are right.
I definitely agree with this. I thought about this very often.
But I mean, to play devil's advocate. Literally EVERY friday night was the same thing... dinner somewhere, movie at my house.
I mean... we're not married yet, we only 23... we really didn't go out and have a good time with people. Never went to parties, never went on double dates... never went out. The routine part was great, and she did like it, and the comfort of it... but she hated that it was literally ALL we did. Which I fully understand and respect.
My problem is that... TELL ME... I mean honestly... TELL ME.
That was immature.
Okay, the routine is great, but it needs to be broken at times to go out, we never go out and I want to.
Done.
So I tell myself... I shouldn't be with someone who after seven years literally just gives up, without a fight or even so much as a word... just cowardly gives up. Why would I want to be with someone who does that...
Did she tell you she wasn't happy with what you were doing on Friday nights? Did she give you an opportunity to fix it? Or did she just end things... without giving you the chance to change?