Have You Heard? Magic Friends Are The Word

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mousefan1972

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You also are right.

I definitely agree with this. I thought about this very often.

But I mean, to play devil's advocate. Literally EVERY friday night was the same thing... dinner somewhere, movie at my house.

I mean... we're not married yet, we only 23... we really didn't go out and have a good time with people. Never went to parties, never went on double dates... never went out. The routine part was great, and she did like it, and the comfort of it... but she hated that it was literally ALL we did. Which I fully understand and respect.

My problem is that... TELL ME... I mean honestly... TELL ME.

That was immature.

Okay, the routine is great, but it needs to be broken at times to go out, we never go out and I want to.

Done.

So I tell myself... I shouldn't be with someone who after seven years literally just gives up, without a fight or even so much as a word... just cowardly gives up. Why would I want to be with someone who does that...

Did she tell you she wasn't happy with what you were doing on Friday nights? Did she give you an opportunity to fix it? Or did she just end things... without giving you the chance to change?
 

Dukeblue1016

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Joe How was lunch?

What did you have?


My lunch break was good...

my lunch was not... Burger King and something else even more unhealthy (you don't eat them... *hangs head in shame smiley*)

But...

for some reason I motivated myself... and I thought what the HECK am I doing...

I'm addicted to cigarettes, which I've always been so disgusted by them and hate them, I have asthma, I'm regaining the weight I worked so absurdly hard to lose... I'm letting this dumb broad control my life still... and I'm letting my family down.

They'd never say that but... my dad is running the half again because I was doing it. He spent the 7 months where I put in all that work to get in shape being soooooooooooooo proud of me. I couldn't even tell you how proud he was of me... I mean I know everyone was, but my dad was bragging about me to everyone, always being helpful and supportive... played NOTHING I did down...

My sister, her boyfriend, and nephew were only going down in the beginning because I was gonna lose a lot of weight and run... the boyfriend ended up signing up for it... but still... what the heck am I doing...

as an asthmatic I have roughly 70% of the oxygen capacity of a non-asthmatic... as a smoking asthmatic it's probably like 30%... I'm so out of shape right now from 3 months of zero activity... I'm eating unhealthy... there's probably 0% chance that in less than 3 months I could run 13 miles... but who cares..

is it better to continue down this path of destruction and decided without trying that I'm not gonna do the half... or try to do the half and fail but know I tried...

so i think I might start exercising again and just do the best I possibly can...
 

Dukeblue1016

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Did she tell you she wasn't happy with what you were doing on Friday nights? Did she give you an opportunity to fix it? Or did she just end things... without giving you the chance to change?


she just ended it. She didn't even make hints or throw in clues or any signs or nothing that I missed...

just kept it in until it was too much and ended it...

edit: and when she ended it... she still didn't tell me that was the reason...

she broke up with me, without a reason... she just broke up with me and say "we were growing apart"

I spent three weeks getting treated like complete and utter _____. She treated me like a scumbag... I told everyone that if they watched this unfold they'd be CONVINCED I cheated on her and she found out and felt she had no reason to tell me... only I'd never even in my worst nightmare dream of being unfaithful to her... but she wouldn't talk to me... she'd yell at me, hangup on me, send me text messages telling me to "leave her alone."

it took me three weeks to realize EVERYTHING that went wrong, all my on my own record, and only then did she finally agree to sit down and talk to me... and we talked for three hours, in which I talked the entire three hours and she still told me NOTHING... she said NOTHING... answered some questions maybe, but didn't really say a word...
 

mousefan1972

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she just ended it. She didn't even make hints or throw in clues or any signs or nothing that I missed...

just kept it in until it was too much and ended it...

Then I agree with you... that is immature. If she was unhappy with your routine, she should have expressed it to you. That's why I think there is a lot more to it than that....:shrug:
 

k.hunter30

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Hi!
On my phone so probably won't chat much.
Just checking in. Hope everyone had a good weekend.
VERY windy here and actually cooler than home.
DL was fun yesterday. Got pic with Captain Jack. Told him Nicole sends her love.
DCA either Thurs or Fri.
 

Disnut

Member
My lunch break was good...

my lunch was not... Burger King and something else even more unhealthy (you don't eat them... *hangs head in shame smiley*)

But...

for some reason I motivated myself... and I thought what the HECK am I doing...

I'm addicted to cigarettes, which I've always been so disgusted by them and hate them, I have asthma, I'm regaining the weight I worked so absurdly hard to lose... I'm letting this dumb broad control my life still... and I'm letting my family down.

They'd never say that but... my dad is running the half again because I was doing it. He spent the 7 months where I put in all that work to get in shape being soooooooooooooo proud of me. I couldn't even tell you how proud he was of me... I mean I know everyone was, but my dad was bragging about me to everyone, always being helpful and supportive... played NOTHING I did down...

My sister, her boyfriend, and nephew were only going down in the beginning because I was gonna lose a lot of weight and run... the boyfriend ended up signing up for it... but still... what the heck am I doing...

as an asthmatic I have roughly 70% of the oxygen capacity of a non-asthmatic... as a smoking asthmatic it's probably like 30%... I'm so out of shape right now from 3 months of zero activity... I'm eating unhealthy... there's probably 0% chance that in less than 3 months I could run 13 miles... but who cares..

is it better to continue down this path of destruction and decided without trying that I'm not gonna do the half... or try to do the half and fail but know I tried...

so i think I might start exercising again and just do the best I possibly can...
I gave up on walking. :lookaroun:cry::eek::cry:
 

Disnut

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Hi!
On my phone so probably won't chat much.
Just checking in. Hope everyone had a good weekend.
VERY windy here and actually cooler than home.
DL was fun yesterday. Got pic with Captain Jack. Told him Nicole sends her love.
DCA either Thurs or Fri.
Hello Kat.
I hope you are having a wonderful time.
 

DisneySam

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Here are a few teasers...
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k.hunter30

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Great photos Samie, from what I can see on my phone.

I'm off. Not sure what to do today. Don't know what to do with myself with nothing to do! LOL.
 

DisneySam

Active Member
More more more....:sohappy::sohappy::sohappy:

90% of my pictures are on a friends computer so I am gonna get them in the next day or so. My card was full at the end of almost every day.

I think this was my camera's last hoorah. It just isn't taking as good of pictures as I would like. :rolleyes:
 

Dukeblue1016

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Then I agree with you... that is immature. If she was unhappy with your routine, she should have expressed it to you. That's why I think there is a lot more to it than that....:shrug:


I did too...

but I don't think there is. I did for awhile. But now I basically know... there isn't.

She's just like that.
 

Disnut

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90% of my pictures are on a friends computer so I am gonna get them in the next day or so. My card was full at the end of almost every day.

I think this was my camera's last hoorah. It just isn't taking as good of pictures as I would like. :rolleyes:
I am hoping to get a good camera before my next trip, whenever that will be.
I love the pictures btw.
 

DisneySam

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I am hoping to get a good camera before my next trip, whenever that will be.
I love the pictures btw.

Thanks! I probably will not go again until Christmas 2009. :cry: Unless by some miracle I have the money to go on my Birthday next summer.
 
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