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Dukeblue1016 said:
eh...

it was okay... i played golf for the first time in like 2 months on saturday which was nice... played well too...

plans with that girl friday night fell through which I ended up being really happy about... but it was tough because last week was the best week yet for me because I had something to think about other than Allie... so... I kinda had a really emotionally difficult weekend this weekend... :eek: (edit: since I no longer had something else occupying my mind)

but i'm hanging in there, doing my best...


how was yours susan?
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Sorry I had to get the girls to school.

Well are you going to try again?
 
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Disnut said:
Sorry I had to get the girls to school.

Well are you going to try again?
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nah...

i know one of her friends pretty well and she was like "honestly joe you should stay away... she plays games with guys all the time. I hate how she is when she likes a guy, but i let it slide, until its a good friend then I gotta at least warn them."

so like... I just wanted to hangout, have fun... but apparently she just plays mind games and what not... I don't need that.
 
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Dukeblue1016 said:
nah...

i know one of her friends pretty well and she was like "honestly joe you should stay away... she plays games with guys all the time. I hate how she is when she likes a guy, but i let it slide, until its a good friend then I gotta at least warn them."

so like... I just wanted to hangout, have fun... but apparently she just plays mind games and what not... I don't need that.
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No you don't.

You need so much more than that.:sohappy::kiss:
 
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Disnut said:
No you don't.

You need so much more than that.:sohappy::kiss:
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I do...

it sucks...

I like having a gf... I don't wanna be in the rat race out at bars "trying to pickup girls" cuz I'll never pick one up... I don't do that...

I go out to have fun with my buddies, not to impress girls or worry about pickup lines... a la how this girl showed up... she came to me cuz I was just being my awesome self at a party not worrying about a thing... at a bar its so different

plus i don't wanna do that...

so many people are like... dude you have a great opportunity ahead of you, you've only experienced things with one girl, you can have so much fun and meet so many girls...

that ain't me... I said from the start to all my buddies in college... Quality over Quantity... I'd rather have one meaningful relationship than 100 meaningless ones...

:eek:

so it's gonna be tough because I mean... sadly EVENTUALLY it will be at the point where... putting myself "out there" whether dating/just having some fun and what not will start to help me get over allie... but right now I'd just be doing it for that reason and only that reason... that'd be unfair to a girl... so even if this girl didn't play games and genuinely wanted to hangout... I think deep down I'd be using her to help me get over allie... I wouldn't do that to a person.
 
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Cause Nibbs was Romeo, I was a scarlet letter
and my daddy said "stay away from Juliet"
but Nibbs was everything to me,
I was begging her please don't go
and I said


Romeo take me somewhere we can be alone
I'll be waiting... all there's left to do is run
You be the prince and I'll be the princess
it's a love story...
baby just say yes
 
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mousefan1972 said:
Hello, guys! :wave:



Samie, you're back! How was your trip?

We need details, girl!
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Hey Kristen! Yes I am back, we had a GREAT time! I am going to work on my trip report today and try and get all my pictures together. I took about 400 so I need to narrow it down. :lol:
 
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Dukeblue1016 said:
I do...

it sucks...

I like having a gf... I don't wanna be in the rat race out at bars "trying to pickup girls" cuz I'll never pick one up... I don't do that...

I go out to have fun with my buddies, not to impress girls or worry about pickup lines... a la how this girl showed up... she came to me cuz I was just being my awesome self at a party not worrying about a thing... at a bar its so different

plus i don't wanna do that...

so many people are like... dude you have a great opportunity ahead of you, you've only experienced things with one girl, you can have so much fun and meet so many girls...

that ain't me... I said from the start to all my buddies in college... Quality over Quantity... I'd rather have one meaningful relationship than 100 meaningless ones...

:eek:

so it's gonna be tough because I mean... sadly EVENTUALLY it will be at the point where... putting myself "out there" whether dating/just having some fun and what not will start to help me get over allie... but right now I'd just be doing it for that reason and only that reason... that'd be unfair to a girl... so even if this girl didn't play games and genuinely wanted to hangout... I think deep down I'd be using her to help me get over allie... I wouldn't do that to a person.
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Sorry I left again. Had to take DH his cell phone. :brick: he forgot it at home.

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Hey Kristen! Yes I am back, we had a GREAT time! I am going to work on my trip report today and try and get all my pictures together. I took about 400 so I need to narrow it down. :lol:
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Hey Sammie.
Can't wait to hear about it.
 
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Allie's birthday is thursday...

i haven't talked to her in 10 days... that day will be 2 weeks... I have her blocked on everything so that I don't get tempted...

do I unblock her to say Happy Birthday?

She chose this... this was her choice to eliminate me from her life... I don't want it to look like I'm intentionally being a jerk... but I also don't want to get back into talking to her because she isn't coming back and if we talk the conversation always end up in the same place...
 
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Dukeblue1016 said:
Allie's birthday is thursday...

i haven't talked to her in 10 days... that day will be 2 weeks... I have her blocked on everything so that I don't get tempted...

do I unblock her to say Happy Birthday?

She chose this... this was her choice to eliminate me from her life... I don't want it to look like I'm intentionally being a jerk... but I also don't want to get back into talking to her because she isn't coming back and if we talk the conversation always end up in the same place...
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I would say no. That is me. like you said she chose. Unless you want to send her a general card saying HB. nothing special.
 
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Disnut said:
I would say no. That is me. like you said she chose. Unless you want to send her a general card saying HB. nothing special.
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the only reason I do wanna do anything is so she thinks I'm a nice guy and wants to talk to me...

but it doesn't matter... like I said, she isn't coming back to me... IF she were... it'd have to be natural, I can't make her.

and honestly... it's now... I wish more than anything she would come back ONLY because I am so miserable all the friggin time I can't stand it... and I just wanna go back to being happy again like I used to be, and having that somebody... and having HER.

BUT... how could you do this to someone you love? How could I EVER trust this girl again... EVER... she's put me through hell... such extreme hell...

ughhhhhhh sorry I didn't wanna talk about this stuff anymore on here...

I think it's best I just don't say anything. she chose this. I'm not a part of her life anymore...
 
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