Have You Heard? Magic Friends Are The Word

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DisneyBunny

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Let’s see…

Things on my mind:

Marc’s dad has been diagnosed with what they think is Parkinsons… but they’re not sure it is, so Marc’s going to see if he can use his work contacts to find a new neurologist for him. Marc’s beside himself with worry…

I’ve been battling Marc’s insurance company all week long because they billed me for a routine GYN exam AND an office visit. It seems that since we discussed my condition and she wrote me an order for an ultrasound that deems it an “office visit” too, and not just the normal pap smear and physical stuff. Which just sent me over the edge…I was sobbing when I opened the bill… I have to pay close to $100 for that doctor’s visit… and what really ticked me off is that if they were going to charge me for both, I wouldn’t have waited so long to go see the doctor. I’ve been holding off on going since June because I thought I could save some money that way. So I’ve been needlessly in pain all that time and they STILL billed me for it.

This Friday is my ultrasound… I’m nervous about what it will reveal, and if/when it does, how we’re going to deal with it. Not to mention how we’re going to pay for the ultrasound itself..

Marc’s mom is already starting the holiday guilt, and she wants to completely rearrange the routine that worked out so well last year because her 90 year old mother (Marc’s grandmother) might not be around much longer, so she wants to go up to see her (a 3 hour drive away) and make all of us rearrange our plans to fit her schedule…

Finances are tight in general…Marc didn’t get much of a raise this year, and I’m looking at part time holiday work to get ends to meet.

Anastasia hasn’t been napping all that well lately, and a s a result I’ve been neglecting the housework. I’m cranky because the house isn’t as nice as I’d like it, and things just keep piling up. She’s not old enough to amuse herself while I do a lot of things, so I just have to let the housework slide…

Marc worked all day yesterday, and came home after she was in bed several times this week. His co-worker is about to leave on maternity leave and they’ll be even more short handed once she leaves…which means he’ll be working even longer hours…

I discovered that our plane fare to Vegas expires on January 10th…I can’t let $430 go to waste, so we’re trying to see if someone can buy the miles on Southwest from us…. But the one person who could buy them decided to go with Airtran instead. So now we’ve got to either find someone else to use them, or use them ourselves…which we don’t really have in the budget for another vacation right now…but it would kill me to just let $430 go to waste like that…

Then on top of this all, the new medication that my doc put me on is screwing with my system. My stomach is upset and I’ve been so moody I’m practically bipolar. It’s like the worst PMS you can imagine. It’s leaving me depressed and listless… like nothing matters anymore.

So that’s where I’ve been.
 

Uponastar

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:lol:

I know what you mean...all the extra cash you can muster...and for us...you know...Disney will be our very expensive Christmas present to each other...so that will save us. Plus, it will be our trip again next Sept...so that will save us too...

dangerous, dangerous! The rationalizations you give to it...

You have to keep your head screwed on.
We don't go to shop...we don't need any more "things" from there for now.
We just want to be there.
We know how to stay cheap and eat cheap.
We shop for cheap air and hotel rates.
It's fun, actually, seeing just how cheaply we can do it.
 

joanna71985

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Oh Bunny. I am so sorry you have to go through all this. I will be praying for you that everything works out. And I hope you know you can always come talk to us. *HUGS*


:kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss:
 

nibblesandbits

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Bun...Big ((Hugs))

I know things have been so rough on you lately...:(

Question...does the ticket have to be used by Jan 10? Or do I have to have it booked by then?
 

Uponastar

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Let’s see…

Things on my mind:

Marc’s dad has been diagnosed with what they think is Parkinsons… but they’re not sure it is, so Marc’s going to see if he can use his work contacts to find a new neurologist for him. Marc’s beside himself with worry…

I’ve been battling Marc’s insurance company all week long because they billed me for a routine GYN exam AND an office visit. It seems that since we discussed my condition and she wrote me an order for an ultrasound that deems it an “office visit” too, and not just the normal pap smear and physical stuff. Which just sent me over the edge…I was sobbing when I opened the bill… I have to pay close to $100 for that doctor’s visit… and what really ticked me off is that if they were going to charge me for both, I wouldn’t have waited so long to go see the doctor. I’ve been holding off on going since June because I thought I could save some money that way. So I’ve been needlessly in pain all that time and they STILL billed me for it.

This Friday is my ultrasound… I’m nervous about what it will reveal, and if/when it does, how we’re going to deal with it. Not to mention how we’re going to pay for the ultrasound itself..

Marc’s mom is already starting the holiday guilt, and she wants to completely rearrange the routine that worked out so well last year because her 90 year old mother (Marc’s grandmother) might not be around much longer, so she wants to go up to see her (a 3 hour drive away) and make all of us rearrange our plans to fit her schedule…

Finances are tight in general…Marc didn’t get much of a raise this year, and I’m looking at part time holiday work to get ends to meet.

Anastasia hasn’t been napping all that well lately, and a s a result I’ve been neglecting the housework. I’m cranky because the house isn’t as nice as I’d like it, and things just keep piling up. She’s not old enough to amuse herself while I do a lot of things, so I just have to let the housework slide…

Marc worked all day yesterday, and came home after she was in bed several times this week. His co-worker is about to leave on maternity leave and they’ll be even more short handed once she leaves…which means he’ll be working even longer hours…

I discovered that our plane fare to Vegas expires on January 10th…I can’t let $430 go to waste, so we’re trying to see if someone can buy the miles on Southwest from us…. But the one person who could buy them decided to go with Airtran instead. So now we’ve got to either find someone else to use them, or use them ourselves…which we don’t really have in the budget for another vacation right now…but it would kill me to just let $430 go to waste like that…

Then on top of this all, the new medication that my doc put me on is screwing with my system. My stomach is upset and I’ve been so moody I’m practically bipolar. It’s like the worst PMS you can imagine. It’s leaving me depressed and listless… like nothing matters anymore.

So that’s where I’ve been.

I'm so sorry about Marc's dad...that's a tough one.

The rest...everything is so much worse when it ALL goes wrong at once.
I know it's hard, but try to keep perspective. There's a lot that is very right in your world. Try to let that help you through this rough patch.
There's not much more we can do but listen, and you know we're always here for that.
Hang in, Bunny. :kiss:
 

DisneyBunny

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Thanks Jo :kiss:

Bun...Big ((Hugs))

I know things have been so rough on you lately...:(

Question...does the ticket have to be used by Jan 10? Or do I have to have it booked by then?


It has to be used by the 10th.. otherwise we'd just use it ourselves when we go down on the 18th.. :brick:
 

PotteryGal

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If I could, I'd come over there and give you a huge hug, Bun. I honestly don't what else to say, except that I'm sorry things have been so challenging lately. :(

I gave up the battle on my housework a long time ago.....not that I'm happy about it. I HATE it , actually. But there's only so many hours in the day and other things need more of my time. This is only my very humble ignorant opinion, but with your health issues, that needs to be priority for you right now. The house will keep. It may not look as nice as you want, but it will wait on you (unfortunately :rolleyes:).
 

nibblesandbits

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On to the stuff you talked about...

About Marc's dad...of course, you knew something was going on and it wasn't good. :( Hopefully he can get the help he needs.

What does the Drs office have to say about the bill?

((Hugs)) about the ultrasound...:(

Once again...I think you need to do what's best for your little family this Christmas...if that isn't going to work...you have to tell her that...you can't keep having this done to you every year.

I'm sorry about Anya...wish I knew of something you could do with the naps.

I hate when WHF has to work long hours too...it makes like so much harder.

Anyway to talk to the Dr. about the medicine too?
 

nibblesandbits

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Thanks Jo :kiss:




It has to be used by the 10th.. otherwise we'd just use it ourselves when we go down on the 18th.. :brick:
Well crap...

I'm sorry...I bought a package with Southwest and I don't think they'll take the credit now...:(

If I had known earlier...:(
 

nibblesandbits

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If I could, I'd come over there and give you a huge hug, Bun. I honestly don't what else to say, except that I'm sorry things have been so challenging lately. :(

I gave up the battle on my housework a long time ago.....not that I'm happy about it. I HATE it , actually. But there's only so many hours in the day and other things need more of my time. This is only my very humble ignorant opinion, but with your health issues, that needs to be priority for you right now. The house will keep. It may not look as nice as you want, but it will wait on you (unfortunately :rolleyes:).
Agreed...the house will keep...just do a little at a time...maybe one day do one room or do a corner of a room or something...but don't kill yourself about the house.
 

Nemo14

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:wave:

((HUGE HUGS))

Bun - I'm so sorry you're going through this now. Believe me, I do understand. But you need to take this one day at a time. Housework is definitely back burner stuff, your own health issues should be your #1 priority right now. Anya's napping schedule certainly makes things more difficult, but will she ast least sit still for a video or something for a few minutes so that you can get some rest?
 

Nemo14

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Hi Jo!

Bun,
As far as visiting with Marc's grandmother for Christmas, you need to insist that it not be done on Christmas Day. You and Marc need to establish traditions of your own that work with your schedules. I would not give in on this. Arrange for a visit a few days before or a few days after Christmas, but stick to your guns about your own family (yours and Marc's). I know it's not easy, but your MIL really needs to acknowledge the existance of your family now. Plan a Christmas Eve party with them or Christmas day-after party or something like that. Anya deserves to have a stress-free holiday with her mom and dad.
 

nibblesandbits

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Hi Jo!

Bun,
As far as visiting with Marc's grandmother for Christmas, you need to insist that it not be done on Christmas Day. You and Marc need to establish traditions of your own that work with your schedules. I would not give in on this. Arrange for a visit a few days before or a few days after Christmas, but stick to your guns about your own family (yours and Marc's). I know it's not easy, but your MIL really needs to acknowledge the existance of your family now. Plan a Christmas Eve party with them or Christmas day-after party or something like that. Anya deserves to have a stress-free holiday with her mom and dad.
I agree...there is not a NEED to go see grandma on Christmas Day...Christmas Eve or some day right around Christmas would be fine...but doing it on Christmas Day is going to cause unnecessary stress for everyone involved...including your MIL.
 

PotteryGal

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Hi Jo!

Bun,
As far as visiting with Marc's grandmother for Christmas, you need to insist that it not be done on Christmas Day. You and Marc need to establish traditions of your own that work with your schedules. I would not give in on this. Arrange for a visit a few days before or a few days after Christmas, but stick to your guns about your own family (yours and Marc's). I know it's not easy, but your MIL really needs to acknowledge the existance of your family now. Plan a Christmas Eve party with them or Christmas day-after party or something like that. Anya deserves to have a stress-free holiday with her mom and dad.

I agree...there is not a NEED to go see grandma on Christmas Day...Christmas Eve or some day right around Christmas would be fine...but doing it on Christmas Day is going to cause unnecessary stress for everyone involved...including your MIL.

1000% Agreed on this.
 

DisneyBunny

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If I could, I'd come over there and give you a huge hug, Bun. I honestly don't what else to say, except that I'm sorry things have been so challenging lately. :(

I gave up the battle on my housework a long time ago.....not that I'm happy about it. I HATE it , actually. But there's only so many hours in the day and other things need more of my time. This is only my very humble ignorant opinion, but with your health issues, that needs to be priority for you right now. The house will keep. It may not look as nice as you want, but it will wait on you (unfortunately :rolleyes:).

Thing is, I'm not a big housework person normally. I go nuts when company's coming, but that's different. If I can get laundry done and vaccum once a week I'm happy...it's just all the other stuff that's catching up on me. I just wiped down the month-old ring around the tub scum :hurl:

On to the stuff you talked about...

About Marc's dad...of course, you knew something was going on and it wasn't good. :( Hopefully he can get the help he needs.

What does the Drs office have to say about the bill?

((Hugs)) about the ultrasound...:(

Once again...I think you need to do what's best for your little family this Christmas...if that isn't going to work...you have to tell her that...you can't keep having this done to you every year.

I'm sorry about Anya...wish I knew of something you could do with the naps.

I hate when WHF has to work long hours too...it makes like so much harder.

Anyway to talk to the Dr. about the medicine too?

I'm going to try to talk to her about the medicine... as long as she doesn't charge me for the talk :rolleyes:

:wave:

((HUGE HUGS))

Bun - I'm so sorry you're going through this now. Believe me, I do understand. But you need to take this one day at a time. Housework is definitely back burner stuff, your own health issues should be your #1 priority right now. Anya's napping schedule certainly makes things more difficult, but will she ast least sit still for a video or something for a few minutes so that you can get some rest?

That's where my half hour of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse comes in :lol:

Hi Jo!

Bun,
As far as visiting with Marc's grandmother for Christmas, you need to insist that it not be done on Christmas Day. You and Marc need to establish traditions of your own that work with your schedules. I would not give in on this. Arrange for a visit a few days before or a few days after Christmas, but stick to your guns about your own family (yours and Marc's). I know it's not easy, but your MIL really needs to acknowledge the existance of your family now. Plan a Christmas Eve party with them or Christmas day-after party or something like that. Anya deserves to have a stress-free holiday with her mom and dad.

I don't think she wants us to visit with Marc's Nan (AFAIK) I think she wants my mom to give up on her plans so she can do what she wants... it's all so complicated.
 

DisneyBunny

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Oh, and one more thing I forgot to add...

Our roof is leaking again.

And the company that fixed it last time and gave us a lifetime guarantee ...looks like they have gone out of business :brick:
 

Nemo14

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Thing is, I'm not a big housework person normally. I go nuts when company's coming, but that's different. If I can get laundry done and vaccum once a week I'm happy...it's just all the other stuff that's catching up on me. I just wiped down the month-old ring around the tub scum :hurl:



I'm going to try to talk to her about the medicine... as long as she doesn't charge me for the talk :rolleyes:



That's where my half hour of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse comes in :lol:



I don't think she wants us to visit with Marc's Nan (AFAIK) I think she wants my mom to give up on her plans so she can do what she wants... it's all so complicated.
This is going to sound really harsh, but no one's plans should have to change for a 90-year-old woman who has had her share of Christmases with her family. Now it is your turn!!!!
 
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