A few years ago, my 7 year old DD and I were feeling left out because DH and 9 year old DS were going on all the "thrill" rides, and we were too scared. So we decided to start small and be brave. First we all got on line for BTMRR, and I was very nervous as we sat down. DS sat next to me, and did something that made my heart melt - he took my hand and said "I'll help you be brave Mommy." With encouragement like that, how could I not be brave? He held my hand the whole ride, and I actually enjoyed the ride. (So did DD sitting with DH.) The next day we decided to step things up a bit and try RnRC. The line was long and my heart was in my throat the whole time. As we were finally at the boarding area waiting to get on the next ride, I suddenly started to panic and my eyes welled with tears. DS turned to me and said, "Mommy, are you crying?" Well DD was looking at me and taking her cue on how scared to be based on my reaction, so I pulled myself together and said I was fine. Once again, DS held my hand throughout the entire ride (without me asking!), and to my amazement, I loved it.
On a trip after that I worked up the courage to try Everest, and I have to say I didn't like the drops. I am still afraid to try ToT, but if DS holds my hand on our next trip, I just might give it a try to say I've done it. However, he's a cool 13 now, not 9, so we'll have to see if he's still willing to do that for his chicken-mom!