On our last trip, we went to the DTD theatre to watch TS3 opening weekend. When we got into the theatre, most of the people had parked strollers by the door but this one family parked their stroller in a handicap square and took up all 6 seats next to it. The other handicap square had another WC in it. I politely said excuse me and explained that I needed to use the spot for my son's WC and the seats, which were marked COMPANIONS while pointing to all ove the handicap logos around it. The woman turned and started arguing that she was here first. Mind you the entire row in front of her was open. A woman from the bottom stadium row came over and loudly said I'll move my stroller for your wheelchair since this is the only place you can sit (there were two strollers in the square). The other woman's husband told his wife to shut her mouth and move so they moved down a row. The entire time, a theatre employee just stood there close lipped.
Why do people believe that getting there first means that they have the right to use a space clearly designed for someone who's handicapped. Those spaces that you are talking about are for people in a wheelchair (and I believe a handicapped child who must remain in their stroller) I don't know why the CM's don't speak up. I spoke to customer relations about this and they said that the CM's who do this kind of work are very timid. If they know this why don't they ask them to speak up. It would be easy to just say "those seats are reserved for wheelchairs, or in my case, the handicapped" they are the people we look to for support. On another note, most CM's are awesome about this (Just not the timid people supervising these types of events)
Exactly. A guest shouldn't have to fight for simple things like that. As a parent of a kid with SNs we fight for their rights A LOT. Can I NOT do that on vacation? lol
Pardon my ignorance...what is SNS ?
I also have a son with CP who uses a stroller/wheelchair. One time I got into a really heated argument with the boat captain on the friendship boats in WS. He refused to load our chair and made us fold everything up and carry our son as well ( because he couldn't walk or keep his balance ) across the entrance to the boat. It seemed a lot safer than using the ramp for his harnessed chair to cross:shrug:
Later after returning and leaving an email about the situation I got a response oh we're sorry we'll get it right on your next vacation, have a magical day. I'm still upset over the whole incident and how it was handled by the cast member, guest services, and their phone feedback line.
Annielkd just letting you know there are indeed handicap viewing areas for parade's and fireworks at every park.
Also if you think a CM did not handle the situation and you are still upset as to see the Manager of the area. Explain the situation to the manager and say you don't feel comfortable sitting next to this woman because she was already hostile towards you and they will find you a new place to sit.
Also there are a few secret areas that typically still make great viewing areas in each park. My friends and I prefer to sit on the bridge between main street and tomorrowland at the Magic Kingdom because we don't have to get there super early and we can sit. We typically get there about 15 minutes prior to Magic the Memories and You (about 45 minutes before fireworks) and sit and chat. Someone will typically go get everyone else a snack so we don't loose our seats. This works every summer for us.
Also with Epcot a few of the quick service places have outdoor seating and if you explain your situation they will not deny you a seat.
By the way I wanted to apologize to all GAP and special entrances users if anything I have ever said on here came off as offensive. I am in no way against those who need the GAP and special entrance using it. I have only had issue with it in recent years because I have friends who will rent wheel chairs just to skip lines and no one in the party has any condition (as I said they are friends and I see them at least 180 days out of the year) and I know people who will lie to get a GAP even though they don't need it. I always try to educate people I meet who say something about people using GAP that they are for invisible disabilities and are a great service. I have two family members that will need them and would hate to ever have come off as offensive to anyone else who needs them.
Two summers ago I had to get a GAC due to surgery healing taking longer than expected (busy summer crowds+pins sticking out of my toes=not good). I must say even though you could tell there was something wrong (all my toes bandaged up etc) I got some rude comments and many nasty stares from people, including a comment behind my back about faking it.
I must also say that if you need it, use it. The cast members are great at making your vacation the best possible. Also, the first aid stations are great! I had to use them a couple of times to fix bandages etc and they are a great addition to the park so that we did not have to trek all the way back to the resort.
Pardon my ignorance...what is SNS ?
If anyone should question you, look them in the eye with a smile and say, "My disability is not visible to the naked eye. Just like your lack of compassion was until you spoke."
Guests of mine have used the GAC pass for a variety of reasons (austistic son, ADHD son, systemic lupus, recovering from radiation following cancer treatment) and from looking at any of them, you could not tell they were ill. But each needed the assistance that Disney offered and the vacations for all were greatly enhanced.
However, I have seen people trying to scam the system. I once viewed two people in using a wheelchair. They stopped in the middle of the roadway by Pirates and the one sitting got up and had the other one sit and off they went to the next ride. They knew they were scamming, and enjoyed every minute of it.
When I used to use mass transit to commute to work, there was a corvette that was parked in handicapped every morning, without fail. I once watched as the train pulled in, a young woman jumped out of the car, locked the doors and ran up the ramp onto the train. Day after day this would happen. I thought, well, maybe she has an issue that I can't see and why should I judge her. One day I happened to walk past her car and saw her roller blades and other work out gear on the passenger seat. So I took a look at the handicapped sticker - it was issued for her grandfather. She just wanted a way to have a better parking place where her car was not near other cars and she did not have to wait in the rain and cold when the weather was poor.
PEople will look for a loophole and exploit it to their benefit.
If anyone should question you, look them in the eye with a smile and say, "My disability is not visible to the naked eye. Just like your lack of compassion was until you spoke."
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