Honestly for the most part, I have seen valid arguments on every angle on the new process...and I think most of the rationality shines when people have acknowledged a few thing:
1.) A change had to be done. It wasn't implemented to PUNISH anyone who had valid reasons (I get irritated when its implied this change was done as an "anti-disabled" move. Lets be real here)
2.) The new system is in fact NEW (for Disney). They themselves said it will require a period of adjustment. Anyone who has seen GR in person (or in the videos) will notice that there are management CMs all over the place, taking notes. This is not only to help the CMs help guests, but also to observe what is and what isn't working..and list the complaints people have.
3.) The TRUE test of how well (or not) it works will be the upcoming holiday season.
4.) Its hard for anyone on either side to clearly see the others point of view. Those without a disabled party member can never know exactly what its like to go to WDW, but on the inverse, those who have disabled party members can't seem to understand why the rest of the world seems happy about this. As I've said numerous times here, no one has ever said the disabled don't deserve special access to any aspect of WDW. The problem is to what extent, and the touchy area about that is..there are different types of disabilities. Some more apparent than others. Just because you can't SEE it, doesn't mean its not there..that kind of thing. Hostility from one side comes from the fact that a lot of the "invisible" disabilities have sadly blended in with the masses who were clearly faking it, so a general attitude of "If its not obvious, its fake". I personally feel the new system, tho a bit more work for the valid users, is going to cut down on those who are exploiting the system. A signed "contract" and a picture of you on the paper really makes people a lot more worried about getting caught. At least for now. Disney is on a fine line here, if too many exceptions get made (and yes...there HAVE to be exceptions on a person by person basis...no denying that either), and if its "gets out" how to "work" the system...then we are back to square one.
Now this is where I may lose a few of you..but here it goes.
I think that instead of chastising the new system, the Autistic community should actually EMBRACE it, and give feedback..and aggressively help think of ways to make sure those who are getting the passes are those who truly need them, as opposed to complaining and flat out saying it doesn't work..and then putting it on a public forum on how to get what you want. Because the problem is...EVERYONE can see those things...and then the fakers will start following the same guidelines.