Fun in the Sun with Magic Friends

[Disnut]

Thanks, I know it wont be easy for us, but he have been through worse times. I am thinking of weighing my options and following other avenues. If they are going to cut me off completely I'll need to start looking for another source of income. I may even go back to college and finish that out. :shrug: Right now I am open to many different possibilities.

Well, much love to everyone, I am going to take a little time and think. :kiss:

Take the time and think. I don't know how much or if you do believe in God but pray also. He will be there for you.

 

[WaltzingMatilda]

Hello Susie. I need a shoulder for a second, if you don't mind.


I just got off the phone from work and was just told that I don't have any medical leave time left. And I won't be getting paid if I don't come back to work. But I can't go back to work unless I can over come my injury. (Hello, torn tendon, not going to heal thy self!) Anyhoo, the state is the ones that are taking their time to get me approved for appointments, so why am I being penalized?
This is a shocker because this was not what I was originally told.
Ok, *deep breath* I know I'll make it through and well be fine, but why always obsticles? I just spent the day running around getting paper work for them, then they tell me this.
I also don't know if I should tell George yet, I don't want to stress him out anymore then he is now. :veryconfu Any thoughts?

Aww, honey...I'm sorry. {{{HUGS}}}. I wish I knew what to tell you!

 

[WaltzingMatilda]

Okay, y'all...:::deep breath:::

My mother in law died this morning in the hospital. I feel like hell.

Grant is a wreck, of course. One of his best friends has just invited us down the shore for the weekend, and Grant accepted. A big part of me wants him to stay here and deal with this but Grant alone among his family accepted 3 months ago that his mom was going to leave us. He's been grieving for a while now...I think my job here is to just be with him and support his decisions.

 

[Wilt Dasney]

Okay, y'all...:::deep breath:::

My mother in law died this morning in the hospital. I feel like hell.

Grant is a wreck, of course. One of his best friends has just invited us down the shore for the weekend, and Grant accepted. A big part of me wants him to stay here and deal with this but Grant alone among his family accepted 3 months ago that his mom was going to leave us. He's been grieving for a while now...I think my job here is to just be with him and support his decisions.

Sorry to hear about your loss. I wouldn't try to push him one way or the other in terms of how he should deal with the aftermath. Maybe he feels like going to the shore will provide a semblance of life going on, or maybe he thinks he can honor her memory in some way with the trip...or maybe he just wants to get away and not really think about it for a few days. I'd just support whatever he wants to do, like you said.

 

[Disnut]

Okay, y'all...:::deep breath:::

My mother in law died this morning in the hospital. I feel like hell.

Grant is a wreck, of course. One of his best friends has just invited us down the shore for the weekend, and Grant accepted. A big part of me wants him to stay here and deal with this but Grant alone among his family accepted 3 months ago that his mom was going to leave us. He's been grieving for a while now...I think my job here is to just be with him and support his decisions.

I am so sorry Amy. My prayers are with you and your family.:kiss:

 

[WaltzingMatilda]

Sorry to hear about your loss. I wouldn't try to push him one way or the other in terms of how he should deal with the aftermath. Maybe he feels like going to the shore will provide a semblance of life going on, or maybe he thinks he can honor her memory in some way with the trip...or maybe he just wants to get away and not really think about it for a few days. I'd just support whatever he wants to do, like you said.

I think you nailed it right there. It's all he's been thinking about for a long time now, and now that she's gone, and there is literally nothing he can do for her anymore, he just wants to not think. Reality will hit us hard enough on MOnday.

 

[WaltzingMatilda]

I am so sorry Amy. My prayers are with you and your family.:kiss:

Thank you, honey.

On that note, I am, oddly enough, off to the shore. It feels wierd.

 

[Disnut]

I think you nailed it right there. It's all he's been thinking about for a long time now, and now that she's gone, and there is literally nothing he can do for her anymore, he just wants to not think. Reality will hit us hard enough on MOnday.

Ya'll be safe traveling.:wave:

 

[SamnDawn060304]

Hello Susie. I need a shoulder for a second, if you don't mind.


I just got off the phone from work and was just told that I don't have any medical leave time left. And I won't be getting paid if I don't come back to work. But I can't go back to work unless I can over come my injury. (Hello, torn tendon, not going to heal thy self!) Anyhoo, the state is the ones that are taking their time to get me approved for appointments, so why am I being penalized?
This is a shocker because this was not what I was originally told.
Ok, *deep breath* I know I'll make it through and well be fine, but why always obsticles? I just spent the day running around getting paper work for them, then they tell me this.
I also don't know if I should tell George yet, I don't want to stress him out anymore then he is now. :veryconfu Any thoughts?

I am sorry to hear that. Is it a work related injury?

 

[SamnDawn060304]

Okay, y'all...:::deep breath:::

My mother in law died this morning in the hospital. I feel like hell.

Grant is a wreck, of course. One of his best friends has just invited us down the shore for the weekend, and Grant accepted. A big part of me wants him to stay here and deal with this but Grant alone among his family accepted 3 months ago that his mom was going to leave us. He's been grieving for a while now...I think my job here is to just be with him and support his decisions.

Sorry about your loss. I take it from your other posts that this was expected? Everyone has their own way of dealing with death and there is no wrong way it is whatever makes you feel better.

 

[Disnut]

Hello Dawn

 

[SamnDawn060304]

Hello Dawn

Hello Susan!

 

[Disnut]

How is your day going?

 

[SamnDawn060304]

Susan everytime I look at your avatar I say to myself " you can call me a flower if you want to" :kiss:

 

[Disnut]

Susan everytime I look at your avatar I say to myself " you can call me a flower if you want to" :kiss:

That is my favorite part of the movie.:sohappy:

 

[SamnDawn060304]

ok I was just talkin to my mom. She said I have to go see the baby. I told I do not have to do nothing. But... I guess I will go and see her after work I just don't want to get upset. I love my brother he is my heart. He is 11 years younger than me.

 

[SamnDawn060304]

That is my favorite part of the movie.:sohappy:

Mine too Bambi it kind of sad movie to me. :shrug:

 

[Disnut]

ok I was just talkin to my mom. She said I have to go see the baby. I told I do not have to do nothing. But... I guess I will go and see her after work I just don't want to get upset. I love my brother he is my heart. He is 11 years younger than me.

Just hold your chin up high and say I can do this. I am strong.

 

[Disnut]

Mine too Bambi it kind of sad movie to me. :shrug:

I like it until right after they get twitter patted.:lol:

 

[SamnDawn060304]

Just hold your chin up high and say I can do this. I am strong.

I know I know. But her and I have not talked since I had to call the police on her for my brother. She basically came into my house like 8 months after they broke up and ransacked his room (he was living there with us). No one was home at the time. We did not press charges but after that it was different between us. This is the kicker they broke up on my birthday while I was.... at.... Disney isn't that crazy!