danlb_2000
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I'm now singing that to the tune of "Do you wanna build a snowman?".
Any that would actually be the opposite of building a snowman.
I'm now singing that to the tune of "Do you wanna build a snowman?".
#1 I am not being rude, it is just my opinion that the parents have the responsibility to teach their children that they are not special or entitled because of their special need, they need to be told that they are as normal as the next kid anywhere. I think some parents use their child's special needs as a reason they feel they are entitled to special treatment.
#2 I have a good friend with a son that has Autism. I have watched him have meltdowns and have watched her teach him how to deal with the situation like a child that doesn't have special needs. I AM NOT JUDGING ANYONE!
I am just saying that children with Special Needs, whatever they are can be raised in a manner that they are socially accepting and I am just saying that PARENTS are the ones who feel their children are entitled because they have special needs. If this is the case with DAS, I am legally disabled, too, does that mean I can use one of these cards!?(even though I can wait in line or come back on a fastpass!?) The card IS for DISABLED guests.
I'm now singing that to the tune of "Do you wanna build a snowman?".
#1 I am not being rude, it is just my opinion that the parents have the responsibility to teach their children that they are not special or entitled because of their special need, they need to be told that they are as normal as the next kid anywhere. I think some parents use their child's special needs as a reason they feel they are entitled to special treatment.
#2 I have a good friend with a son that has Autism. I have watched him have meltdowns and have watched her teach him how to deal with the situation like a child that doesn't have special needs. I AM NOT JUDGING ANYONE!
I am just saying that children with Special Needs, whatever they are can be raised in a manner that they are socially accepting and I am just saying that PARENTS are the ones who feel their children are entitled because they have special needs. If this is the case with DAS, I am legally disabled, too, does that mean I can use one of these cards!?(even though I can wait in line or come back on a fastpass!?) The card IS for DISABLED guests.
#1 Mmmhmm. Would you like to tell my brother that his anxiety, which causes severe meltdowns, is normal and that he should just deal with it? Or would you say that his limited comprehension of the English language and ability to communicate should be considered "normal"? Believe me, it is not that simple. These accommodations are there specifically because these kids are not like their non-autistic counterparts. And yes, it is quite insulting to parents who have worked for years with their children to be told that they are still not doing their job right, especially when you yourself do not have a child with autism and ergo have no idea what it is like to raise a child with autism.#1 I am not being rude, it is just my opinion that the parents have the responsibility to teach their children that they are not special or entitled because of their special need, they need to be told that they are as normal as the next kid anywhere. I think some parents use their child's special needs as a reason they feel they are entitled to special treatment.
#2 I have a good friend with a son that has Autism. I have watched him have meltdowns and have watched her teach him how to deal with the situation like a child that doesn't have special needs. I AM NOT JUDGING ANYONE!
I am just saying that children with Special Needs, whatever they are can be raised in a manner that they are socially accepting and I am just saying that PARENTS are the ones who feel their children are entitled because they have special needs. If this is the case with DAS, I am legally disabled, too, does that mean I can use one of these cards!?(even though I can wait in line or come back on a fastpass!?) The card IS for DISABLED guests.
Or would you say that his limited comprehension of the English language and ability to communicate should be considered "normal"?
Time for name calling: You're an idiot.I think SOME of these 'parents' feel their kids are entitled because they have special needs. If you have to wait for a particular ride, why not go and take another ride with a shorter/no line? or go have a snack? Why not explain to your son/daughter that they will be going on the ride, but to be fair to everyone else they have to wait until its their turn!? Just because you have 'something wrong' with your son/daughter, you should not assume its a free pass to get on any ride any time you want!
Maybe these parents need to teach their special needs children that they are NOT special and have to wait for their turn for things in life. I fault the parents that teach their kids that since they have special needs, they get special treatment wherever and whenever they go somewhere! Why are these parents suing Disney? Isn't it just like getting a fastpass? Maybe everyone should sue Disney for making us have to reserve fastpasses! for ride we want to get on...we can have a meltdown just as easily!
#1 I am not being rude, it is just my opinion that the parents have the responsibility to teach their children that they are not special or entitled because of their special need, they need to be told that they are as normal as the next kid anywhere. I think some parents use their child's special needs as a reason they feel they are entitled to special treatment.
#2 I have a good friend with a son that has Autism. I have watched him have meltdowns and have watched her teach him how to deal with the situation like a child that doesn't have special needs. I AM NOT JUDGING ANYONE!
I am just saying that children with Special Needs, whatever they are can be raised in a manner that they are socially accepting and I am just saying that PARENTS are the ones who feel their children are entitled because they have special needs. If this is the case with DAS, I am legally disabled, too, does that mean I can use one of these cards!?(even though I can wait in line or come back on a fastpass!?) The card IS for DISABLED guests.
You are referring to children with mild autism and I agree that they should not be treated as disabled since it is a proven fact that they will grow up to be independent and productive citizens. However, children with severe autism cannot be taught and are in a world of their own. You put a kid with severe autism on a ride and then try and get him off when it is over and you will have a fight on your hands if he doesn't want to. There is a big difference when it comes to children who have severe autism and those who have mild autism.
This. Times 1000.The kids on the upper end of the spectrum know they are different not because we as parents tell them , because they look at other kids and just know they are not the same.
Claiming they have no right to have a disabled card and shouldn't be treated as
I am not saying this at all despite what others are reading into it! I was just #1 stating my personal feelings regard the abuse of the DAS card, #2 Having been a Cast member, I have seen those abusing the system and therefore I have seen and heard parents tell their children something so they DO have a meltdown and what they tell them is not that they have to wait! #3 I was just saying some parents do feel they are owed the world on a silver platter because the son/daughter has special needs. I know not all are like that, it usually the ones that are abusing the system and that's where my comments were directed, not at any other parent that is raising the special needs child as best they can and I apologize with a heavy heart if my comments came across as anything but my opinion! I just get so tired of those who take advantage of the DAS system that they ruin it for the rest of those that do need it. I am not a bad or rude person, I am just stating my personal opinion
With that being said, I still feel there are those PARENTS that feel they are entitled for whatever reason and will abuse the DAS program until it hurts those that need it! That is my final thought I will no longer comment on this thread.
Again, with a heavy heart I apologize if I offended anyone by not explaining my thoughts.
This is a discussion forum. Everyone has the opportunity to express their opinion, as long as they adhere to the rules of the forum. However, disagreements will happen. Some might disagree so much that they respond.I was just #1 stating my personal feelings regard the abuse of the DAS card,
You are a former CM who has "seen those abusing the system".#2 Having been a Cast member, I have seen those abusing the system and therefore I have seen and heard parents tell their children something so they DO have a meltdown and what they tell them is not that they have to wait!
In revising ADA in 2008, Congress found that "discrimination against individuals with disabilities persists in such critical areas as employment, housing, public accommodations, education, transportation, communication, recreation, institutionalization, health services, voting, and access to public services".#3 I was just saying some parents do feel they are owed the world on a silver platter because the son/daughter has special needs.
Good lord this thread is a 20 page Sisyphus.
The basis of the argument is that some people either do not or refuse to admit that some with autism cannot be taught certain behaviors. If it was that easy, there would not be an argument. My friend has an autistic son. She has worked with him since his diagnosis 9 years ago. This woman taught honors classes but went back to school to qualify as a Special Education teacher so she could learn even more about how best to work with her son.
People are so mean spirited about this topic. I always think about our daughter who is a Type 1 diabetic. Would some here expect me to teach her, "Tell your pancreas to catch a grip". Some of these kids with autism have no more control over their thought processes than our daughter does over her faulty pancreas. The attitudes are like those not too many years ago that mental illness was something people just needed to get over.
Compassion is not a bad thing.
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