WaltzingMatilda
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***RANT ALERT***
Stressy stressy. And once again doing everything all wrong! When I told the fam TWO MONTHS ago that Grant and I were getting married, mom was like "Whatever" and my older sister was actually against it. And honestly, that didn't bother me at all. I accept their feelings and go about my life.
Well, the "wedding" has now morphed into something totally unplanned. I asked Grants sister to be our witness, and she was thrilled. Then my boss, with whom I am very close, said he'd like to stand up for me. I was touched and said yes. Then Grant asked his best friend to be there, and then we thought it would be fun to go to the Phillies game after the wedding. We figured we should invite the people who had expressed interest in attending our nuptuals. Then Grant's boss wanted to come, so I figured I should ask my BFF or she would be ed that I was having a "do" and didn't invite her. Now I am taking them all (except for Grant's boss, he has a funeral) and EMily to the 1 PM game tomorrow. Sounds fun, yea?
Last night my sister calls and wants to know why I didn't ask her to be my witness. And my mom calls insisting that we stop by after the wedding, she wanted to have a lunch for us. Excuse me, where was all this 2 months ago???? They're all like "Well, we thought you guys weren't doing anything". Yea, and you obviously didn't care WHICH IS FINE but don't try to make me feel all guilty now. I don't have time to do lunch at my mom's I ALREADY HAVE PLANS. Yet I'm the bad guy. My mom is all hurt and saying this is the last nice thing she will ever do for any of us. We compromised on stopping by briefly after the wedding and having dinner after the game.
And I thought I had it all under control.
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Stressy stressy. And once again doing everything all wrong! When I told the fam TWO MONTHS ago that Grant and I were getting married, mom was like "Whatever" and my older sister was actually against it. And honestly, that didn't bother me at all. I accept their feelings and go about my life.
Well, the "wedding" has now morphed into something totally unplanned. I asked Grants sister to be our witness, and she was thrilled. Then my boss, with whom I am very close, said he'd like to stand up for me. I was touched and said yes. Then Grant asked his best friend to be there, and then we thought it would be fun to go to the Phillies game after the wedding. We figured we should invite the people who had expressed interest in attending our nuptuals. Then Grant's boss wanted to come, so I figured I should ask my BFF or she would be ed that I was having a "do" and didn't invite her. Now I am taking them all (except for Grant's boss, he has a funeral) and EMily to the 1 PM game tomorrow. Sounds fun, yea?
Last night my sister calls and wants to know why I didn't ask her to be my witness. And my mom calls insisting that we stop by after the wedding, she wanted to have a lunch for us. Excuse me, where was all this 2 months ago???? They're all like "Well, we thought you guys weren't doing anything". Yea, and you obviously didn't care WHICH IS FINE but don't try to make me feel all guilty now. I don't have time to do lunch at my mom's I ALREADY HAVE PLANS. Yet I'm the bad guy. My mom is all hurt and saying this is the last nice thing she will ever do for any of us. We compromised on stopping by briefly after the wedding and having dinner after the game.
And I thought I had it all under control.
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