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captainkidd, I'm wondering about your hotel options. I know you like the immersiveness at WDW, but do you ever stay off-site at WDW and drive to the parks? How does your family like that? Is the immersiveness about being in the parks or the whole resort experience? If you're worried about feeling like there are going to be skyscrapers hanging over your head while you're on MSUSA, it's honestly not like that. The two times I remember seeing the outside world are on the monorail and on California Screamin'. California Screamin' is basically the berm for the backside of DCA, so you can see the outside world while riding... but you can see off-property for Expedition: Everest, too. My advice would be to save the money and stay at one of the hotels within walking distance on Harbor Blvd. The Candy Cane Inn gets good reviews and you won't even have to cross Harbor Blvd.
If walking into Disneyland right from a street that looks like this (thanks, @
TP2000) will bother you but you don't mind driving into the WDW parks, I have an idea.
I think the
drive into Disneyland is actually very immersive and trouble-free. If you sorta follow my route, but stay closer to Disneyland than my 40 minute(!) commute, I think you'd actually like it as someone who likes feeling immersed in Disney. If you look at hotels near the Artesia Freeway (Route 91) West of I-5, you could save a ton of money, get a good hotel and I'd just about guarantee no traffic... plus, you'd be right next to Knott's. I've driven on the Artesia Freeway to I-5 South from much further away about 30 times and have seen big traffic maybe once. Even then, it wasn't in the carpool lane. That area is a wonderful masterpiece of civil engineering: there is a carpool lane on 91 that I very very rarely saw crowded. There is a carpool-to-carpool exit from 91E to I-5 South. Then, there is a carpool exit that pretty much takes you right to the Mickey & Friends parking structure. Once you park, you're all set. There is a tree-lined tram route or a very lovely 10-15 minute walk along some wonderfully landscaped streets with lots of tropical flowers (when we were there, at least). You really don't see the outside world once you park. You do cross a street (Disneyland Dr), but there's no stores or anything on it... just trees. The tram stops in Downtown Disney, just a minute walk or so away from the front gates. Any alleged craziness from Harbor Blvd is a
barely discernible haze in the distance way on the other side of the esplanade between the two parks. I know you said you don't deal well with driving in unfamiliar places, but I can vouch for the traffic along that route... really really nothing. I make it all the way from the Torrance/Redondo Beach area in about 40 minutes... Google Maps says 8 minutes for a random hotel I picked near Knott's to Mickey & Friends.