OK, my two, well maybe, fifty cents...first off, my heart goes out to EVERY family that has lost a loved one due to COVID...a friend lost their mom in a nursing home due to it. As an earlier writer said, it is a shame that more family members don't visit their loved ones in nursing homes...my dad was in an excellent rehab facility when he broke his femur a few years ago, and the staff said that was one of their biggest "beefs", that in many, not all cases, children put their parents in there and just "forget" all about them. I saw it first hand, because I was able to visit him every day and was his primary caretaker. I had numerous conversations with patients I didn't know, just to give them a sense of self worth. It really IS a sin that in many cases, the "kids" are more interested in spending their parents money before they're even dead than they are about visiting them, but that IS a reality in some instances. It was heartbreaking to see the tears in some of their eyes having not seen their families in a VERY long time. I believe that we will ALL have to answer for what we did or didn't do...it may not be tomorrow, next month or in 20 years, but it's coming.
As far as the whole COVID situation goes, I live in NJ, one of the "hot spots" of the pandemic....this next statement was told to me, believe it if you wish, but I have a life long friend that is an RN in the ICU of one of the largest hospitals in NJ...they were given STRICT orders that ANYONE who has a respiratory illness or ANY condition that could be connected to COVID had to be classified as positive. Why do you ask? Because the state gets more federal funding for COVID related cases/deaths. Our Governor, Phil Murphy, and the Governor of NY, Andrew Cuomo, forced long term care facilities to accept positive COVID cases and the virus spread like wildfire. Almost HALF of the deaths in these 2 states occurred in those facilities. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that if you put sick people in an enclosed area with immuno suppressed patients, the result won't be good. Murphy essentially shut the whole state down, forced everyone to wear masks, but when he appeared at demonstrations earlier this month, NEVER socially distanced himself...double standard? You be the judge. When the dust finally settles, I think we will find out that many cases were preventable by our elected officials. Again, they will have to answer for it. All of those 70,000 ventilators Cuomo screamed about? NOT needed...The hospital ship Comfort that was sent to NY? It departed earlier than expected, having handled less than 200 patients total. Will there be a resurgence? ABSOLUTELY, but what no official or doctor is telling the public is, EVERYONE secluded in their homes for the past 3 months have suppressed immune systems BECAUSE they haven't been outside. I've already seen stories about anti-vaxxers that will refuse to immunize themselves or their children when/if an effective vaccine becomes available. Some things in this world will NEVER change.
I have MS, and the medicine I'm on leaves me immuno compromised. Personally, I'm more concerned about having to give up driving and being forced into a wheelchair in the near future...THAT, I think about constantly. I still drive, shop with a mask (because I'm forced to) by the state. I take my vitamins and hope and pray for the best. I handle money, touch counters and don't use hand sanitizers nearly enough (so my wife says), but I think I have a good immune system BECAUSE I venture into the outside world.
My wife and I have a second Disneymoon scheduled for the first week in December...we had a family vacation to Disney cancelled twice this year. I don't know, because of my daughters future college schedules, if we will ever be able to visit as a family again, but we will try like hell to make it happen. I have discussed this with my wife many times, that if masks are still REQUIRED and no parades, fireworks, etc., I really don't know if I want to return this year. We will have waited 27 years...what's one more? Hopefully, I will still be able to enjoy it. I don't know how much "quality" time I have left, but I'm NOT going to finish it out as a shut-in if I have anything to do or say about it...
I HOPE and PRAY that everyone stays safe!!! I'll get off my soapbox now...