As a vaccinated adult I really feel for my kids. I have 2 that got the shot and 2 that aren’t old enough. It’s so sad watching them feel left out! We are at Disney now and my 9 year old is so frustrated by adults not wearing masks inside. She keeps saying - don’t they know I can’t get a shot? We shared an elevator today with a man who shared that he won’t be getting the vaccine. She quickly retreated into the corner and gave me her concerned look. The kids have had to witness and process a horrible global tragedy. They are processing corporate trauma and it hurts to see them left behind. Even though they are lower risk they have heard about Covid for over a year and they internalize the seriousness of what has occurred. They aren’t just going to be okay. Anyway. No point really except that it sucks kids are being written off as we rip masks off.
I think it is easy for us adults to sometimes lose sight of this because we are going through our own stuff, but 2020 has had a significant impact on the development of a young generation.
My 9 year old used to love playing in the dirt and catching lizards. When asked why she no longer does this her response was “I’m afraid of viruses because I can’t see them so I don’t play in the dirt anymore.” She has gotten sick twice during the pandemic (not with Covid) and each time she woke up during the night in a shear panic that she would die from not being able to breath. One of the times she was sick it was the flu and she was relieved to have the FLU! She stopped panicking at night after the flu test even though the fever persisted a few more days.
Lastly, without to much detail, she developed a legit phobia (not using word incorrectly) of something she was only mildly uncomfortable with before 2020 and I have seen her have legit panic attacks at 9 years of age when worrying about things not even related to the new phobia.
I know children change quickly, but she is been shaped by this whole event more incredibly than I would have imagined. In hindsight, I should have stayed away from the news reports at the beginning while she was around. Nevertheless, staying away from the news wouldn’t have changed that she couldn’t visit her grandparents for a short while, and that she saw the whole City shut down for a period. It also wouldn’t have shielded here from the new school safety protocols, masking, etc.
If you pay any attention to the news it seems the anxiety of 2020 really brought out the worst in some adults. If adults had this hard of a time handling themselves in 2020 (soaring crime, more fighting amongst ourselves, depression, overdose, suicide) then what of our kids? My heart really goes out to the young generation that dealing with growing and developing during the oddest year in my lifetime.
Very sorry for the rant, but your post gave me a chance to relate.