Cult of the Hugglers

[DDuckFan130]

 

[stranger]

I wish I were as cute as Lucy!

There's a picture of me in my photo album. Not the best, but that's me!

By the way, huggles Roxxy!

*huggles Upo*

I shall go look at the picture. :wave:
(I'm curious)

 

[Connor002]

(and what connor made you say to him!)

I didn't force her to say it, I asked nicely!

 

[Uponastar]

Dot, I have to tell you how much I loved what you said to Danny today (and what connor made you say to him!) about girlfriends. I wish someone would convince my son of that! Being a teen (or the parent of one) can be so heartbreaking sometimes!

Oh I know, it is so hard!
We've been there, so we try to protect them, but the only real way for them to grow is to let them experience it for themselves.
I'm glad you liked what I said. I thought it might help them look at things a little differently and not see a lack of girlfriends as a personal failure.

 

[Nemo14]

Oh I know, it is so hard!
We've been there, so we try to protect them, but the only real way for them to grow is to let them experience it for themselves.
I'm glad you liked what I said. I thought it might help them look at things a little differently and not see a lack of girlfriends as a personal failure.

I actually choked up reading it.

 

[Uponastar]

Eh, I doesn't matter. My hair is dark brown in the winter and brown during the summer, and I have three gray hairs in the back as a birthmark, but I couldn't care less. There's more to life than looks.

Who's looks were you talking about, yours or mine? :lol:

 

[Connor002]

Who's looks were you talking about, yours or mine? :lol:

Mine, your, both, others, it dosen't matter.

 

[Connor002]

*huggles Upo*

I shall go look at the picture. :wave:
(I'm curious)

 

[speck76]

I thought it might help them look at things a little differently and not see a lack of girlfriends as a personal failure.

I agree with this

I am much older than Connor, but honestly, my life did not really begin to click until I stopped looking for love in all the wrong places and started to focus on what is important......now....a little love here and there is not a bad thing, but one should always focus on what they need.....not just what they want.

 

[Uponastar]

I actually choked up reading it.

Oh my.
I just felt that in the end, we, at least most of us, don't wind up with the best looking, most popular, richest, strongest, most athletic, etc, etc. person out there. We wind up with the person we connect with the best. The person who deep down has the same outlook on things as we do. It is just really, really too bad that we have to go throught all that dumb stuff first, because it just hurts so much.

 

[Uponastar]

Gee thanks, Connor.
I'm sure you just made everyone's night! :lol:

 

[DDuckFan130]

Oh my.
I just felt that in the end, we, at least most of us, don't wind up with the best looking, most popular, richest, strongest, most athletic, etc, etc. person out there. We wind up with the person we connect with the best. The person who deep down has the same outlook on things as we do. It is just really, really too bad that we have to go throught all that dumb stuff first, because it just hurts so much.

*sigh*

Amen to that

 

[Connor002]

Gee thanks, Connor.
I'm sure you just made everyone's night! :lol:

It's a good thing.

 

[Connor002]

Oh my.
I just felt that in the end, we, at least most of us, don't wind up with the best looking, most popular, richest, strongest, most athletic, etc, etc. person out there. We wind up with the person we connect with the best. The person who deep down has the same outlook on things as we do. It is just really, really too bad that we have to go throught all that dumb stuff first, because it just hurts so much.

It's going to be a fun next few years.

 

[speck76]

Oh my.
I just felt that in the end, we, at least most of us, don't wind up with the best looking, most popular, richest, strongest, most athletic, etc, etc. person out there. We wind up with the person we connect with the best. The person who deep down has the same outlook on things as we do. It is just really, really too bad that we have to go throught all that dumb stuff first, because it just hurts so much.

yeah

When I was younger, I "went out" with women for beacause I thought they were "hot"....but as you get older, "hot" changes meetings

To me...."hot" used to be some super-model looking woman......but it is now the whole package (personality/goals/esteem)......and when the looks fade away (and they always do)...what is one going to be left with?...at least with the whole package, you have the important stuff to fall back upon.

 

[Uponastar]

I agree with this

I am much older than Connor, but honestly, my life did not really begin to click until I stopped looking for love in all the wrong places and started to focus on what is important......now....a little love here and there is not a bad thing, but one should always focus on what they need.....not just what they want.

Maybe we're not meant to look for love. Maybe it's supposed to find us. In the meantime, I guess the best we can hope for is to not lose our perspective because we got tired of waiting.

 

[stranger]

Oh my.
I just felt that in the end, we, at least most of us, don't wind up with the best looking, most popular, richest, strongest, most athletic, etc, etc. person out there. We wind up with the person we connect with the best. The person who deep down has the same outlook on things as we do. It is just really, really too bad that we have to go throught all that dumb stuff first, because it just hurts so much.

But because of that bad stuff that happened we learn. And because of my “bad” experiences I learned what I want or don’t want.
There is so much truth when you wrote “Unfortunately, they have to learn the hard way that the nice boys are really the only ones worth their time”
Take it from the girl who wanted nothing but the “bad” ones.

 

[Nemo14]

My parents married very young, and although they truly loved each other, I know they really struggled, raising 7 children. My Dad's advise was alway for us not to be ina hurry to find the "right one". Good things come to those who wait. Boy was he ever right. I didn't meet my husband 'til I was 29, but he's well worth the wait(usually). My youngest sister married at 19 and has supported her DH ever since.

 

[DDuckFan130]

Gee you guys are full of purdy words tonight

Damn superficial guys....or something or other :lookaroun

 

[stranger]

Gee thanks, Connor.
I'm sure you just made everyone's night! :lol:

Nothing wrong with your picture at all!
Thanks Connor for posting it. (I hope you don't mind, Upo) :wave: