Conduct on these Boards

Captain Chaos

Well-Known Member
Since I've become a member here, I've noticed a lot of threads get derailed (or started by) pointless Uni vs Disney arguments or DL vs. WDW arguments. Most of these coming from the News and Rumors area of the site.

There have been a lot of rumors recently, and they have sparked several comments in reaction to proposals, hints, and guesses, yet all this arguing is basically (like Seinfeld) about nothing, because so far none of these rumors has been confirmed.

Most of what I've seen in the rumor mill nowadays (and to be honest I sometimes get swept up in this as well) goes something along the lines of this....

Carsland coming to DHS? Why is it being downsized? How could they do that?! This is TDO on the cheap. Hey don't say that about TDO! They can do no wrong!!:mad: Carsland needs to stay in DCA! No it's coming to DHS! Wait, I thought it was being downsized. Just kidding, it might not come at all...Wow, then Universal is so much better. Yes they are. No they aren't! Prove it! I won't because it's my opinion. (more angry faces)

Star Wars is coming! Wait, no, not in the US. Avatar is probably not coming... (2 months laters) oh wait, just kidding, it is! Avatar better not come, it's not better than Potter. Potter rules!! WDW is so cheap..(WDW spends millions on bathrooms)...why are they doing this (insert disney bathroom jokes) Hey, it's me again...TDO is the best, stop it! Frontierland makeover! I don't like it, why aren't they doing tomorrowland? I think the speedway is going to go. Wait, where did you hear that from? Me, because it's my opinion... (UGH!)

So..
As you can see, these types of comments make ordinary rumor threads, an adventure. Another fine communication service provided by the news and rumors thread (Props to anyone who can guess which ride inspired those last two sentences :))

Basically I think everyone (myself included) needs to chill when these rumors come into play. And I think those are what spark the most controversy on the site. Everywhere else is great and the people on the site are very helpful and kind.

It's just we are all passionate about Disney and a lot of us don't like it when people have a different view than us or tell us that we are wrong. But in reality we all need to chill because although we are passionate about Disney, it's a vacation destination for crying out loud. It shouldn't evoke any negative vibe to insight people to throw personal attacks just because someone might like (for example Expedition Everest even though it is in Disco Yeti mode) Aside from a few comments back and forth, I would just move on, because it's only after a few back and forths were i've noticed the nasty comments and personal attacks. I will debate with people, but I try not to get too serious because that's when things go sour.
Dude just summed up EVERY thread here on WDWMagic... LOL..
 

Bob Saget

Well-Known Member
The correct way to forum debate:
"I do not agree with your idea because..."
"I think you are wrong about (insert subject here), and here is my take on it..."

The incorrect way to forum debate:
"You are ignorant/foolish for thinking that..."
"You are wrong, uneducated, and stupid because..."

It is OK to attack ideas
It is NOT OK to attack the people behind the ideas.

Get it? Good.
(And if you don't get it, then you're a big poopie brain).
 

luv

Well-Known Member
Lol I posted my views on Soarin' in another thread with constructive criticism yet still get flamed down by people who disagree with me. Do I not have a right to an opinion even if they don't agree with it?

I respect everyone's opinion even if I disagree and just live with it and don't get all angry and attack them for their opinion o_O
You keep saying (here and in other threads) that the people here are ganging up on you and attacking you for having an opinion.

Perhaps if you weren't calling them names, there would be less backlash. Even if you are right that they are fools, it might be better to not call them foolish.

And if you weren't calling people names and insisting that your opinion is the correct opinion, more people might feel badly for you when you paint yourself as the innocent victim.

Just a word to the wise there.
 

Taylor

Well-Known Member
I honestly think the tension on this board is because of the lack of solid news from Disney in the last few years. If a DHS makeover was made official tomorrow everyone will be loving each other just saying
 

AndyS2992

Well-Known Member
You keep saying (here and in other threads) that the people here are ganging up on you and attacking you for having an opinion.

Perhaps if you weren't calling them names, there would be less backlash. Even if you are right that they are fools, it might be better to not call them foolish.

And if you weren't calling people names and insisting that your opinion is the correct opinion, more people might feel badly for you when you paint yourself as the innocent victim.

Just a word to the wise there.

What other threads might that be then? This is the first time I have had any backlash of any kind. 99% of the time this place is very pleasant community to be a part of.

Foolish may have been the wrong word to use, silly was more of what I was saying. Waiting hours for Peter Pan in my opinion is a waste. I didn't actually direct that comment at any specific people and that was a one off. Again, I was not stating it as correct as if you read the thread you will see I have wrote several times that it was only an opinion and not actual fact.

'when you paint yourself as the innocent victim.' this however I can agree on.
 

graphite1326

Well-Known Member
I have been on these boards for a few years now and there have always been the occasional angry exchange on certain threads, but it seems to be happening more and more recently. I am seeing more and more threads where people are resorting to personal attacks against other members.

I really enjoy these boards, there is a great mix of people here with different backgrounds and different points of view. Even when I don't agree with someone I try to be respectful of them, I try to disagree without making it personal. I will admit that I don't always succeed in this and will confess to having said things I probably shouldn't have, but I am trying hard to be more careful what I say.

I encourage everyone to try to be respectful of others on the boards. We can all have interesting and even passionate debates about these topics without have to resort to personal attacks. It isn't even necessary to attack people who have obviously come here to troll, they do it to get a rise out of people and if we don't take the bait they will likely go away.

So let's all resolve to try to bring the level of anger here down a couple notches.

Thanks for reading!
oh stop your whining!!! Just kiddin
 

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