WDWVolFan
Well-Known Member
Life is about expectations, and I find it sad that you didn't expect to live the high life! Why??? It's one thing if you don't want that lifestyle, as many people don't -- but to not expect it is kind of sad to me.
And, I bet someone did the same for you, so I hope you pay it forward. How can we expect things from teenagers, if no one takes time to guide them?
I've been trying to stay away from this discussion but the points above gave me no option.
To expect to live a glamorous life is wrong. Because that assumes that you are entitled to it. No one is! You have to earn it. If you don't earn it, you can't have it. That's life.
Everyone should have a goal to live the high life, whatever they consider high life to be, but to expect it or to believe they have the right to do so, that is just nonsense.
As for teenagers, I've seen teenagers that are very polite and willing to learn. But there are plenty that flunk out of HS because they just don't care, then get a job at McDonald's, get the new iPhone, cool rims and sound system for their cars, and when money runs out (because they spent on stupid crap), they want $15/hour to stack buns and hamburger patties.
There is a generation of people that believe that they have the right to have a tricked out car, the coolest smartphone, fast internet, cool vacations, etc. etc. with very little or no effort.
Nice things are EARNED, they are not a right.
Every person makes their own happiness, it's not my job or yours to make everyone happy. We need to fight for what we believe we deserve. And guess what, what we believe may be wrong and life will teach us that and it's up to us to change that, not to pout and whine and scream that we have the right to have nice things if we have a poor attitude and want to put very little effort into it.