Awww, your granddaughter sounds too cute and she's already a tech genius! I just can't grasp how inflation has skyrocketed! I have no idea how or where you could purchase a move in ready home *or* a new car for only $10000 -- and, certainly not both.
Everything has become so complex and this is why more kids are living at home longer and we've also recognized substantial growth within the sandwich generation, otherwise known as "Club Sandwich" - per wiki, those in their 50s or 60s sandwiched between aging parents, adult children and grandchildren, or those in their 30s and 40s, with young children, aging parents and grandparents.
I totally disagree with the bolded -- I don't see where anyone feels *above* the less glamorous jobs. And, how could you possibly define *everyone*? I think this was more so the case with young boomers and older Gen x'ers during the eighties and nineties when they had the pick of the litter. This is not the case with old millennials and young Gen X'ers.
I agree with what you've written here, except for the highlighted parts. It bothers me that you think this way. Life is about expectations, and I find it sad that you didn't expect to live the high life! Why??? It's one thing if you don't want that lifestyle, as many people don't -- but to not expect it is kind of sad to me.
I think it's wonderful that more people want to get to the top. The top is totally subjective and different for everyone. Not only that, but "the top" remains in a constant state of flux -- it evolves and it's elusive.
To be honest, retiring at the young age of 63 is dream that many boomers simply can't afford to do. You're even too young to collect retirement and social security, you have to be at least 67 now! Are you saying that other people should not aspire to retire early? I don't want to retire until I am around 89.
When I was in middle school we had to watch cable for homework. My history teacher was obsessed with the History Channel and would lecture and give us work based on the programming. I have had science teachers require us to watch the Discovery Channel and C-Span for political science. Of course, there were kids that did not have cable and the teachers made adjustments accordingly, but those kids would always feel left out in discussions and stuff.
Low cost and car insurance should not be in the same sentence. The price should be the same for everyone based on the car and their driving record. I have really cheap insurance because of my zip code, but people who live less than 40 miles from me pay astronomical car insurance rates, actually, the highest in the country -- only because they live in the city. This is totally unfair for poor working inner city families and really working urban families. I will gladly support anyone who lobbies against the car insurance underwriting policies!
LOL. I totally disagree with you. Unfortunately, what you encountered is strictly a bad management issue. This is not the fault of the teens, it is the managers responsibility to lead and set expectations.
Teens are *children*, whose brains are not fully developed. They are impressionable, and they require guidance, strong leadership, clear, set guidelines and expectations of what is required of them. If the culture of the Pizza Hut was one that espoused filth and laziness -- then the teens will more than likely adapt to that climate and emulate what they see. This is a leadership problem.
Okay, well in this instance that *appears* to be the case. But, it's a huge *maybe*. At least you acknowledge that not all teens are like that.
You're field is like every other field, many of us are competing in the global market -- things change so rapidly, you never know what will become obsolete. The only thing that is certain is change, so as you can adapt you will be fine! And, sometimes you just have to weather it out. Look at what Lyft and Uber have done to the taxi industry! Someone from the taxi industry paid big bucks for the senate to put the brakes on Uber! A book called "Our Iceberg is Melting" was required reading in college.
Anyway, I just don't get the whole lazy teenager thing. I don't. Teenagers today, seem so responsible to me and the numbers seem to support this. I don't see as many entry level opportunities for them like there was in the past.
I have worked with my fair share of lazy older people who were just plain awful. I have worked with lazy younger people, who were a nightmare as well and vice versa. Collectively, boomers are the worst of all of the generations. Boomers enjoyed all the spoils with literally no sacrifice, their parents who grew up during the great depression made all the sacrifice for them. Boomers did not pass along what they learned and benefited from to the next generation.
With that said, I will say that I prefer working with older people. In my experiences, they took me under their wing and imparted their knowledge and wisdom upon me and they mentored me, without treating me like a child or idiot -- they treated my equally. I learned *so* much from them, stuff that you will never get in a classroom! It gave me so much courage and confidence and it helped to shape my entire outlook and how I faced challenges. I am so grateful that they didn't judge me or totally write me off just because of my age! And, I would like to think that they also learned new things from me, and got a fresh perspective on stuff!
And, I bet someone did the same for you, so I hope you pay it forward. How can we expect things from teenagers, if no one
It has to some extent. When I started working, back in the middle ages, minimum wage was 95 cents per hour, it's now at or near $8.00. It is nearly impossible to live comfortably on $8.00 per hour. Guess what, it was the same degree of impossible when it was 95 cents an hour.
It isn't called minimum wage for nothing. If you make that will you be eating steak at the Outback every night? No, but you will be eating. Will you be partying every night? Absolutely, not at a club or high end place, but your could party occasionally within your means. Could you have a new car? No, but if everyone had a new car what would we do with the used ones. A used car will still, usually, get you from point A to point B exactly the same as a new one will. Will it give you a penthouse view apartment, no, but it should help give you a roof over your head, as you make your way into the world.
It seems like the attitude today is that everyone is owed an easy start in life. No one is willing to work their way to success. They want it instantly. Another, news flash, we all did even back then, but, we also knew that it wasn't going to happen so we did what we needed to do to make our own path and get those creature comforts that we longed to have.
The idea that Disney needs to pay more to their CM's is always up for review, but, if they are in the same league as other like businesses, then what one sees is what one gets. If they cannot make it work on the wages paid, than what kind of non-thinking person takes that job. If they hit a ceiling, then find a new ceiling that is perhaps higher. It's simple logic. We all are responsible for ourselves. We make the moves in life that program our future and our degree of success. It is hard to blame a company for paying a certain rate, when there are mobs of people willing to work for that rate. It all boils down to one thing. If you cannot accept the rate you are getting paid, then you move on to a place that will pay you that rate. Word of warning, don't be surprised to find out that those places are few and far between. No one ever said that life is easy! Well, maybe Donald Trump said it!
Mine was 50 cents an hour AND the want ads specified Jobs for MEN and another for WOMEN! Lol. Guess who got paid more???