I couldn't disagree more. I think the vast majority would "all accept". You make a large assumption that this behavior isn't responsible. It seems your definition of responsible is far different from mine. It is responsible of me to do the ABSOLUTE best I can for my family, not someone else. No where is our founding documents does it mention being someone else's keeper.
Because your mindset is blind to the consequences such thinking has if you actually play it out to its fullest. Resources are not unlimited, and you are NOT self-sufficient in this world. You rely on the success of others to fill those grocery store shelves you buy your necessities from. You rely on the success of others to power that computer you are using. You rely on the success of others to build that house you live in.
Do you really think you live on an island? Do you do think you can exist as you do today without anyone else?
You can not gorge without consequences. If you actually lived a substance lifestyle, you'd understand you must have balance to ensure that what you have today, will be there tomorrow as well. You can't just gorge yourself today, and ignore the impact. The same happens in actual economics and business. You can't act irresponsible and ignore the consequences of those actions.
This is the real issue... we live in such a consumer society now that people think money will actually get them everything they need.. so as long as I get as much as I can, everything will be fine.... completely ambivalent to the consequences of irresponsible behavior.
When businesses act irresponsible and fail... and then the system you rely on is no longer there, what is your money going to do for you? Are you going to eat it? Will you plant it in the ground? Are you just going to buy everything you possible need in life?
This complete detachment from actual community living or substance living is a big part of our society's problem IMO. People think 'me me me plus my money is all I need'.
I think we should force every 16yr old to live on their own in the wilderness in a small community for 6months. Then test them with things like having to create their own necessities, learning what it means when someone takes something you actually need to function, to learn what it means to truly appreciate the assistance of community to complete something you need, to learn you can't get everything you need yourself with just a credit card (like needing a blacksmith), learn to barter/trade actual work for value. Then maybe the general population would respect the idea of don't take just because you can... that would negatively impact someone else... to appreciate what it means to create something... to appreciate work... to appreciate help.. to appreciate that your life will be better when people help each other instead of just trying to step over each other.
If all you think matters is to get MORE MORE MORE.. then you are doomed in the long run.
If at the office you are only concerned with getting YOUR raise at the expense of everything else.. what happens when the team can't sustain the headcount it needs.. or the product sales faulter because the company's overhead is too high because everyone is only concerned with getting MORE MORE MORE for themselves?
Greed is not independent of consequence. Selfishness only leads to it being YOU vs everyone else. A position you really don't want to be in when you actually NEED someone else.
The idea of "im the only one that matters" is short-term thinking that is predicated on this falsehood that you are really self-sufficent. You aren't.
I have had this conversation with my 13 year old DD. She has an A in math. So she needs to drop to a B and bring the kid next to her with a C up to a B with the points she gives back. Does not matter that she earned that grade, its only fair. Same logic
Not the same logic... Your daughter isn't contending with other people over anything to get evaluated for her grade. She's not fighting for finite resources to be scored. Maybe you guys should take a Logic class together?
Or maybe you should teach her in the future, she will be alone and will need help, and if she's never helped anyone else, or doesn't respect other people, they probably won't be interested in working with her to help her through the studying she needs to learn the material.
Because when she was so concerned about ME ME ME, she was ignoring the fact that she will not always be able to do it all herself, and if you actually invest in those around you, you might actually bring EVERYONE up.