It's never just black and white though. I agree, popularity, doesn't always translate to what you define as quality. Sometimes it can. What people find to be quality can differ greatly. So just because you think this show was the gold standard in quality, doesn't make it so. You said "there are many, many completely valid reasons not to watch the show". So don't you think that those reasons could make the show not so high quality in some peoples eyes? Again it's all subjective.
I'm not denigrating it. I personally don't think it's as high of a quality show as you do. And I said based on viewership, a lot of people probably feel the same. I've also said, who cares, the show wasn't really aimed at me. I also said I think it's good they make these types of stories. Where I run into issues, is this culture of, blaming performance on the ones who didn't like it because it has to be their flawed morals. If it's misunderstood, blame Disney and their marketing or the people it was marketed to that didn't watch.
Yes, people attack it in bad faith for whatever reasons. What started this was the implication that some YouTubers had some dramatic effect on this shows performance. I just don't see it. I'm sure you will tell me I just don't want to see it. But when you see the hate that was thrust on something like Hogwarts legacy, yet it still managed to be a number one seller, shows me the impact isn't as great as people think. No one is denying that there's ugly trolls on the internet hell bent on bashing Disney, and others, for stupid reasons. It's just not why this show didn't connect.