Perceptions tend to be biased by family and background. You felt that Disneyland was the only "real" park because your family thought that. You should not try and say that "everyone" felt that way. They did not! I remember watching the Disneyland opening on TV. My childhood was wrapped around the Mickey Mouse Club and the Mouseketeers running around the park, riding the Tea Cups, etc. I never got the chance to visit DL until I was 57 years old during the 50th Anniversary. I had spent many hours visiting WDW before that and I was also very aware of the history about both parks, Walt Disney and how he connected to both of them. Never, even after my DL visit did I think that DL was superior. Yes, it did have a bigger and more impressive Small World and PoTC, but that does not make it a better place. And everyone I knew felt the same way.
Those two post sum up the degree of confusion that is indeed the West Coast/East Coast perception. Anyone's favorite park or superior park will be the one that they enjoyed the most. The one that gave them more bang for the buck. Both were the brainchild of on Walter E. Disney they cannot be separated by "his parks". They both exist because of him, both were "his park".
Reality tells you that it is easier to manage a confined location with limited room for extras. Reality tells you that to organize, maintain and even always know what is happening over 43 Square Miles is a monumental task requiring massive numbers of personnel, money and planning. The two are only comparable based on the original concept that was always one man...Walt Disney.
On the occasions that I am considered a fanboi, which btw is more of an honor than an insult, for those that are counting, I do not have a problem with it. I see problems, I weigh them against the entire picture not just the myopic viewpoint of some, and then I determine whether the sky is falling or not. Most of the time, it is not. I respect those that are "in the know". I understand that they are concerned about quality. I just don't agree that everything that they see is necessarily just a stepping stone to disaster. I prefer to base my opinions on what can be done as opposed to what I'd like to see done. My entire opinion of any park is the degree of pleasure that I get out of that particular experience. I see problems, mostly minor, but I do not look for them. I don't try and guess what management is thinking because I know what they are thinking. How do I save my butt from disaster and at the same time keep my bosses happy. We all do that no matter what profession we are in. It's human nature. Business budgets are sacred things in any business environment. You have to work with what you have. If you want to be a renegade and go away from that on your own...that's were you will be "on your own". Outside!